"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When does your body stop naturally developing?

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Yea, I'm 19 going on 20 and 6'1" 175 lb. I started at 155lb so as you can see I'm naturally pretty skinny....my wrists are still smaller than the vast majority of guys out there.

However, I saw a picture of my dad at the same age as me the other day, and he looked just like I do now....but my dad at the present time is pretty well built (he doesn't work out but he's like 6'1" 200lb or something with a little fat but well proportioned).

Is there an hope for me to naturally get a little bigger, I mean, could I be a late bloomer? I know its not something I can di anything about, but I'd kinda like to know....thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are you talking with or without weight training?

I didn't stop growing til I was about 22 I think
 

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Warboss Alex said:
Are you talking with or without weight training?

I didn't stop growing til I was about 22 I think
yea without weight training. I mean, I look pretty good with a shirt off, but with one one I look skinny-average. Its just basically bone size and thickness that I want to be a little bigger.

Oh and you may not remember me but I'm about 9 months down the line, still using your workout plan! I've gained 20lb and no fat....however i was out for 2 months, so its more like 7-8 months training.
 

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Apparently early 30s is when it's the easiest to put muscle on, don't know if that applies to the question though.
 

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L777 said:
Oh and you may not remember me but I'm about 9 months down the line, still using your workout plan! I've gained 20lb and no fat....however i was out for 2 months, so its more like 7-8 months training.
nope, I remember you :)

20lbs in 7-8 months is AWESOME, I'm glad I could help - you deserve the plaudits though, you did the work. :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NickSCFC2000 said:
Apparently early 30s is when it's the easiest to put muscle on, don't know if that applies to the question though.
what, when your test levels are on the decline?

your 20s (when your natural hormones are at their peak) is when you should pay your dues, so in your 30s, 40s and 50s you can just worry about maintaining and not playing catchup.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
nope, I remember you :)

20lbs in 7-8 months is AWESOME, I'm glad I could help - you deserve the plaudits though, you did the work. :up:
yea man but its hard at the moment....I transfer for a year to an American uni and they provide the meals, which is max three a day...and then you gotta buy the rest, so i can only afford like 4 proper meals per day....so I probs won't gain as much.

Any tips on how to maximise growth, like timing of meals/shakes etc? Cheers man
 

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L777 said:
yea man but its hard at the moment....I transfer for a year to an American uni and they provide the meals, which is max three a day...and then you gotta buy the rest, so i can only afford like 4 proper meals per day....so I probs won't gain as much.

Any tips on how to maximise growth, like timing of meals/shakes etc? Cheers man
eggs + whey shakes in between solid meals, they're in cheap and plentiful supply just about anywhere
 
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