"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When do you shower?

Kpocalypse

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Hey guys.

I got a question about hygiene for you.
When do you shower, in the morning or before you go to bed at night?
I shower the night before school, because I'm not morning person and I'd like to use the shower time for sleeping. What about you guys?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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g g g unit

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there aint anything better than having a shower in the morining to kickstart my day lol.

imo you should have made the post a poll though.
 

fatkins

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whenever, haha

but im fat so i need someone to use the lofa to get my back and ass
 

NYtomb

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I workout with weights in the evening and cardio first thing in the morning. I shower after each workout.
 

LordBrian

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I like to shower before going to sleep so i dont have to worry about it in the morning.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Haboob

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Answer = Both

I don't want to smell in the morning (lol) and my hair is **** if i dont have a shower, but I like to shower before bed... So I shower before bed and in the mornings.

Lately I've been running in the mornings and I get all sweaty so I need a shower anyway.
 

LongDrinkofWater

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I'm a morning shower person. However, if I worked up a big sweat or got grungy somehow during the day, I'll rinse off prior to hitting the sack so I'm not sleeping in the day's dirt buildup.....
 

Le Parisien

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Originally posted by LordBrian
I like to shower before going to sleep so i dont have to worry about it in the morning.
I'm excatly the same.
Plus I sleep much better this way, I feel "fresh" and it helps to fall asleep.
 

Centaurion

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In the winter I shower at night, and during the summer I shower in the morning.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spiky

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i usually shower 2-3 times a day because in the heat here at the moment you get stinky fast
 
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