When in a relationship with a girl, how much bull**** can you take before you decide to leave/next her. Do you have your own cardinal rules you follow, or is it more of a "gut" feeling. Is there certain types of behaviour you won't/shouldn't put up with? Does it matter how hot the girl is and how much ass you're getting?(haha) Does it matter how long you were with the girl and how much you like her? There's certainly a lot of variables to consider, but is there a basic guideline some of you have? Any stories of nexting girls or getting nexted worth hearing? Just looking for some help...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When do you next her?
- Thread starter smorgan
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
If a woman constantly gives you BS she isn't really into you. No matter how much you're attracted to her, it's her choice whether or not there's something viable. If she doesn't act as if the connection is valuable, you time and effort is best spent elsewhere.
PigAdlemPimp
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Always next the HB after you have fvcked her a few times, never get involved in long term relationships, there are too many HB's out there to only be fvcking the same one everyday, remember to keep on sarging, cold approach as many HB's as you possibly can, when you become an expert at this you will never want to next a HB in your life again, as you will realize that there are so many HB's available to fvck, if you are prepared to sarge. :yes:
What?PigAdlemPimp said:Always next the HB after you have fvcked her a few times, never get involved in long term relationships
No really, what the heck?
I smell emptiness.
Next her when the BS starts, call her on it. If she doesn't stop it and makes it up to me then it's over. No disrespect to me, my friends of my life.
Fool, there is more to a woman than just physical attraction and sex. You're patheticAlways next the HB after you have fvcked her a few times, never get involved in long term relationships, there are too many HB's out there to only be fvcking the same one everyday, remember to keep on sarging, cold approach as many HB's as you possibly can, when you become an expert at this you will never want to next a HB in your life again, as you will realize that there are so many HB's available to fvck, if you are prepared to sarge.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
smorgan... hmmm if you aren't happy bro... next her...
Since you did not give many details...
Some of it depends on...
If you guys are exclusive...
If you just keep her around for sex...
What you want out of a relationship...
Better to be alone ,then to just be with someone, so you aren't alone... If that is the case..... Although I will admit it is easier to move on when you are courting/having sex with another girl.
Maybe she started being a b*tch because you let her.
You gave her the power, you let her step on you.
Early in relationships girls see how much power they can get through "tests". Even later in the relationship they will throw up tests every now and then. They do most of it with out thinking.
Point is... Give us more details if you want a solid answer.
Since you did not give many details...
Some of it depends on...
If you guys are exclusive...
If you just keep her around for sex...
What you want out of a relationship...
Better to be alone ,then to just be with someone, so you aren't alone... If that is the case..... Although I will admit it is easier to move on when you are courting/having sex with another girl.
Maybe she started being a b*tch because you let her.
You gave her the power, you let her step on you.
Early in relationships girls see how much power they can get through "tests". Even later in the relationship they will throw up tests every now and then. They do most of it with out thinking.
Point is... Give us more details if you want a solid answer.
insanity
Master Don Juan
i have always stuck with the "once she walks, thats it" attitude. alot of new boyfriends of these girls can probably thank me for it too cause it probably taught them a lesson. ever notice some couples break up and get back together infinity. new girlfriends would get mad and go nutty and it would end up in a break-up. but i always said at the end of the arguement "if you walk, this door will close forever". they walked. 8 hrs later they would call and say they miss me and make some sort of excuse. i would say aren't we broken up... why are we talking? it would literally shock them that i was serious. it turned them very obsessive because i'm sure in the past alot of guys said i miss you too and make up. me on the other hand. i have no time for games and they practically begged me to reconsider. they emailed me, phoned me drunk and cried because they made a mistake.
always have respect for yourself. you wouldn't just let anyone walk all over you. women should be treated no differently.
always have respect for yourself. you wouldn't just let anyone walk all over you. women should be treated no differently.
nvictor
Senior Don Juan
Judge her by the way she treats you.
Pimpadlempimp i dont know if thats a joke or not but thats not really a big help. Scorched, I'm not necessarily looking for an answer to my own problems, but just want to have a general discussion. Personally, I'm a pretty laid back guy and I think a lot of times I let a lot of **** fly. It isn't that I dont have a backbone and am some type of ***** it's just that a lot of times I don't care enough to have a conflict over something. I think this is misinterpreted alot though and hurts my game.
Again, I'm just looking for what your guys personal guidelines are. When do you say you've had enough and just decide to next the girl.
Again, I'm just looking for what your guys personal guidelines are. When do you say you've had enough and just decide to next the girl.
oh and scorched you're absolutely right about the girl I've been seeing. I started off trying to be the cool guy and let her get away with little stuff. It then escelated till she was pulling off some serious jr. high bull****. It was all because I let her and didn't say something when I should have. Let that be a lesson to don's. Start out tough at first and dont put up with any shyt. As you go on you can lighten up. It's a lot easier to do it this way than the other way around.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.