"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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when do you let her know anything about how you feel?

dietzcoi

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As soon as you tell her you begin the long slow slide downhill

I say, don't. Keep her guessing. Keep the tension going. Don't wimp out. Hold on.

I know it is easy for me to say this, but I think it is the right approach

Dietzcoi
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cave dweller

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feelings

chalk,

How long have you been dating?
also,
Are you sleeping with her?

cave dweller
 

princelydeeds

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wait until you're banging her regularly. Show her in actions not in words. Treat her with respect but hold back a little. Patience is the key. Hold it back. Remain a mystery. Be somewhat of a challenge.
 

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Yeah I agree, nothing scares a woman away quicker than some guy who pores out his feelings. Guys shouldn't do this, it's the womens role.
 

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Never tell a woman how you feel about them until they tell you how they feel about you first.

Never say "I love you" to a woman until she says it first.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the two quotes below should be in the DJ Bible, classic stuff.

Yeah I agree, nothing scares a woman away quicker than some guy who pores out his feelings. Guys shouldn't do this, it's the womens role.
Never tell a woman how you feel about them until they tell you how they feel about you first.

Never say "I love you" to a woman until she says it first.
 
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