"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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when do you let her know anything about how you feel?

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As soon as you tell her you begin the long slow slide downhill

I say, don't. Keep her guessing. Keep the tension going. Don't wimp out. Hold on.

I know it is easy for me to say this, but I think it is the right approach

Dietzcoi
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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feelings

chalk,

How long have you been dating?
also,
Are you sleeping with her?

cave dweller
 
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wait until you're banging her regularly. Show her in actions not in words. Treat her with respect but hold back a little. Patience is the key. Hold it back. Remain a mystery. Be somewhat of a challenge.
 
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Yeah I agree, nothing scares a woman away quicker than some guy who pores out his feelings. Guys shouldn't do this, it's the womens role.
 
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Never tell a woman how you feel about them until they tell you how they feel about you first.

Never say "I love you" to a woman until she says it first.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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the two quotes below should be in the DJ Bible, classic stuff.

Yeah I agree, nothing scares a woman away quicker than some guy who pores out his feelings. Guys shouldn't do this, it's the womens role.
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Never tell a woman how you feel about them until they tell you how they feel about you first.

Never say "I love you" to a woman until she says it first.
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