"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When do you give in to anticipation?

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So me and 2 other DJ's where sitting with this fat HB 4 and then 3 other HB come over (8.5, 8, and 7). So we start hugging and heavy kino with the HB 4. So all of a sudden she does this dance that she does. Because of that us 3 DJ hugged her. The 3 hot gurls where jelous, they were like, "We want a hug too, wat do we have to dance too." So one of the DJ's said strip, then they said no. So we were like "the NO HUG"

So finally i hug the 8 and 7 but for the 8.5 i pretented to hug her, but the last second i kept walkin to hug 8. I didnt hug her that time. I think i did it the next day or something.

Anyway my question is when do u stop the anticipation and give her the hug?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i'm not on expert DJ yet but for your question I'd probably say when you see that she just can't take it anymore, or sometimes girls will tend to start to get annoyed...If you see that then go for the hug aswell :)
 
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i may be a bit of an ******* (and indeed i am) but i wouldnt give in to them.

instead next time give demands that they'll meet easier, and afterwards joke that they're your *****es.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
"HB4"?
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Yeah doesn't HB stand for Hot Babe? I hope I haven't been wrong all these months ~~.
 
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Just give her a hug. Be nice. Lol.

Well really, if you want to you could wait a while, but iving her a hug shows shows that you are attracted, but then giving the other girls hugs, shows that you have options. Well I don't play games like that. I give the girl hope so she knows that she has a real chance with me.

If I were to not hug her as much, she might think that I wasn't interested and give up hope. Girls seem to be very self conscious, and you want them to realize that they have a chance.
 
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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Just give her a hug. Be nice. Lol.

Well really, if you want to you could wait a while, but iving her a hug shows shows that you are attracted, but then giving the other girls hugs, shows that you have options. Well I don't play games like that. I give the girl hope so she knows that she has a real chance with me.

If I were to not hug her as much, she might think that I wasn't interested and give up hope. Girls seem to be very self conscious, and you want them to realize that they have a chance.
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THEY KNOW THEY HAVE A CHANCE WHEN YOU HIT ON A HB 4!!!!!!!!!!!!
DUH
THIS IS THE BASICS!
 
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