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When do you consider a girl high mileage?

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When do you consider a girl high mileage, and what number do you consider a deal breaker? Or do both vary on each individual women?

When do you find a girls partner count too high, what do you personally consider high mileage at:
Age 20?
Age 25?
Age 30?
Age 40?


I imagine women love sex along with the experience and thrill of fvcking new people just as much as men do, so I don't blame them for having multiple partners, and nor do I care... don't date them, simple as that... no point resenting them.

I just turned 23 and have slept with 16 girls since 2010 but I was in two relationships that ate up 4 of those years. It's obviously easier for the average woman to get laid if she wants to, compared to the average mine. So I wouldn't be surprised to see a lot of girls my age with a higher count than me, especially when I go out and drink only a few times a year.



What are your thoughts gentlemen?
 

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When she knows the size of every man's d!ck in your town.
 

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imo it doesn't even matter if she has banged a thousand guys as long as she makes her experience worthwhile to you in some way(like say, an ass than can take even the biggest of d!cks or by ****ing you on the first date even though it was just a walk in the park or giving you the best bj ever, etc.).

too much mileage is just a function of her behavior after a million lays, for example:

-if she treats all guys like sh!t by default because she's bitter about dozens of pump and dumps

-if she artificially makes you wait longer for sex as an over correction or because she's afraid you'll find out she's a slut

-if she intentionally holds out on you so that you don't suspect she's a slut (this could be anything from acting like she has a low sex drive to not wanting to do anything kinky so she doesn't come off as experienced)

- the obvious stuff like having a bunch of kids, having any diseases, being an active porn star or hooker or something, etc.

- this is an important one: any key behavioral or personality problems (BPD, daddy issues, sex addiction, drug addiction that leads to crackwhoring, etc.) but technically speaking, since she probably had those problems since before she fvcked half the town, it's not technically an issue of milleage but rather the cause of milleage

-or the worst one of all, if she turns over a new leaf and "doesn't do that kind of stuff anymore" meaning everyone else got the drunken party slut and you got to date the nun, who has the same amount of milleage but none of the fun
 

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When do you find a girls partner count too high, what do you personally consider high mileage at:
Age 20?
Age 25?
Age 30?
Age 40?
5 or more partners. Period. Age does not matter. However, being with the same man for a lengthy amount of time could possibly mean that the top spot of her high score list is taken. It really depends on the guy she was with. If he was a beta and she just put up with him for years, then you might have an opportunity to climb to the top.

There's a lot of variables that make a woman damaged, and the general rule of thumb is the older they are, the more damaged they are.
 

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Partner count? As if she would be honest about that? Lol.

To me it's all about a girls interests. If she's all about talking about dudes and cars and bars and such I can assume she's a skeezer.

If she talks about art, puts value in the things you do together or stuff like that than I'll assume she's not a dirty trick.
 

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When you have to tie a 2x4 around your a$$ so you don't fall in!
 

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I believe the problem is not only the number itself but the people being part of that number.

I would avoid girls that had a previous in certain categories, the two main ones are people I find not worth the air the breath and the second one is the king of the hills.

The first one pollute the girl, no matter how good she cleans herself she still smells of them.

The second one is the king of the hills, top 5% which as Desdinova points your can get the top of her emotional ladder and being there even when they split, Im honest my myself Im not a top 5% so cant pull them down and take their place.

Now in terms of number personally wheter is 5 or 10 or 15 doesnt change the fact that her bonding ability is screwed, does it matter how many times an adhesive has been pulled once it lost the glue?

Not a big problem to me since Im not planning to get married or share my life with a woman in a stable couple but I understand how frustrating nowadays it could be for guys in their late 20s looking for a family.
 

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To me, mileage is some sort of combination of age and partner count. Not sure of my exact formula, but age is the strongest factor, based on the presumption that the partner count will likely be higher as well. When list of men she hasn't been with in your area is shorter than the ones she has been with, that's high odometer, regardless of age.
And also if she has a thundercvnt. :p
 

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man that's lame, choosing between a boring virgin and a successful marriage lmao
If you think virgins stay boring you're doing it wrong. Your words sounds like some gay feminist bvll**** to me.

Speaking from experience, the first two months were actually OK. Since they don't know what is and isn't acceptable you can mould them. It took a bit of time to ease into the less vanilla sex acts but within the first few months I had mine thinking 20 minute blow jobs were the norm.

I tell you the truth, by the end I had that chick TRAINED up hard. Hip rhythm on point, crisp body movements, ass claps, 10/10 head skills. Basically porn star sex. Now some other guy is benefiting! The more girls you bang the more you realise that most women (especially the hot ones) are terrible at sex.
 

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If you think virgins stay boring you're doing it wrong. Your words sounds like some gay feminist bvll**** to me.
idk man, it just seems like she'd be a virgin for a reason, whether that means she's 15 or hideous or deeply religious or extremely sheltered/under her family's thumb or just very prudish, none of those things sound particularly like appealing qualities.

but i could be wrong of course.

Speaking from experience, the first two months were actually OK. Since they don't know what is and isn't acceptable you can mould them. It took a bit of time to ease into the less vanilla sex acts but within the first few months I had mine thinking 20 minute blow jobs were the norm.

I tell you the truth, by the end I had that chick TRAINED up hard. Hip rhythm on point, crisp body movements, ass claps, 10/10 head skills. Basically porn star sex. Now some other guy is benefiting! The more girls you bang the more you realise that most women (especially the hot ones) are terrible at sex.
so what you're saying is that you spent months getting this girl just right and then in the end you're not even together anymore so the majority of the people who benefited from your efforts are going to not be you? that's precisely what i would hate lol.

not to mention, isn't jumping into something with the hopes that it'll become way better than it was when you got together a recipe for disaster? what do you do if it turns out the girl was a virgin because she was just a complete prude so she won't do anything fun?

i wonder what the ratio of virgins who get turned into sex pros to virgins who are total prudes is.
 

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If you want a low mileage girl, my recommendation is to look for her drug habits. If she doesn't drink alcohol, doesn't smoke and doesn't do weed or anything else then ime she's more likely to be in the lower mileage region. OKC is easily the best tool I know of for sorting this kind of stuff.
 

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idk man, it just seems like she'd be a virgin for a reason, whether that means she's 15 or hideous or deeply religious or extremely sheltered/under her family's thumb or just very prudish, none of those things sound particularly like appealing qualities.

but i could be wrong of course.



so what you're saying is that you spent months getting this girl just right and then in the end you're not even together anymore so the majority of the people who benefited from your efforts are going to not be you? that's precisely what i would hate lol.

not to mention, isn't jumping into something with the hopes that it'll become way better than it was when you got together a recipe for disaster? what do you do if it turns out the girl was a virgin because she was just a complete prude so she won't do anything fun?

i wonder what the ratio of virgins who get turned into sex pros to virgins who are total prudes is.
Dude, yes it does feel better knowing YOU are the one who moulded her and got her to do those sex acts. The appealing quality in a virgin is she isn't going to be comparing you to the c0ck carousel and she could be a better partner if her core values are good.
 
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