Asdfghjklll
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i've noticed that by junior year people start to look a lot better. whether they were kinda fugly to begin with or really cute. what do you guys think?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When do people start to look good?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Poonani Maker
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Women 21. Men infinitely. We don't have to look good, just know where we're going or act like we know where we are going so that we can raise her kids.
Asdfghjklll
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im talkin about strictly looks. not how attractive ppl are by how great their personality is etc. just looks
tubagiant89
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After a few hard drinks.
But seriously, Junior year was the magic year. Before that, it's hard to find one that's developed much.
But seriously, Junior year was the magic year. Before that, it's hard to find one that's developed much.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
War Against Betaism
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Junior or senior year IMO.
LostAndConfused
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For guys it really depends on when you're near the end of or have finished puberty. Thats usually when guys look like an adult and look the best to women. I'm not there yet, lol.
trojanman88
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when your **** passes 6 inches ..lol
trojanman88
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wai wait wait...or when you get a decent paying job lol
Rata Blanca
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For me it has been like this
6-11 Looking good, great personality
12-16 Looking awful, gained weight, was very shy
17-19 Started to lose weight,(found sosuave) dressed better, less shy, now I look pretty good
Everyone who met me was 12-16 says I changed so much
I just grin and say "for good or bad?"
However I believe I will look the best at 30-40.
6-11 Looking good, great personality
12-16 Looking awful, gained weight, was very shy
17-19 Started to lose weight,(found sosuave) dressed better, less shy, now I look pretty good
Everyone who met me was 12-16 says I changed so much
I just grin and say "for good or bad?"
However I believe I will look the best at 30-40.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.