Asdfghjklll
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i've noticed that by junior year people start to look a lot better. whether they were kinda fugly to begin with or really cute. what do you guys think?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When do people start to look good?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Poonani Maker
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Women 21. Men infinitely. We don't have to look good, just know where we're going or act like we know where we are going so that we can raise her kids.
Asdfghjklll
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im talkin about strictly looks. not how attractive ppl are by how great their personality is etc. just looks
tubagiant89
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After a few hard drinks.
But seriously, Junior year was the magic year. Before that, it's hard to find one that's developed much.
But seriously, Junior year was the magic year. Before that, it's hard to find one that's developed much.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
War Against Betaism
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Junior or senior year IMO.
LostAndConfused
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For guys it really depends on when you're near the end of or have finished puberty. Thats usually when guys look like an adult and look the best to women. I'm not there yet, lol.
trojanman88
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when your **** passes 6 inches ..lol
trojanman88
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wai wait wait...or when you get a decent paying job lol
Rata Blanca
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For me it has been like this
6-11 Looking good, great personality
12-16 Looking awful, gained weight, was very shy
17-19 Started to lose weight,(found sosuave) dressed better, less shy, now I look pretty good
Everyone who met me was 12-16 says I changed so much
I just grin and say "for good or bad?"
However I believe I will look the best at 30-40.
6-11 Looking good, great personality
12-16 Looking awful, gained weight, was very shy
17-19 Started to lose weight,(found sosuave) dressed better, less shy, now I look pretty good
Everyone who met me was 12-16 says I changed so much
I just grin and say "for good or bad?"
However I believe I will look the best at 30-40.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.