When do girls become 'nice'?

[English_Bloke]

As nice and loving as girls may seem in High School for the first few dates or weeks, they can turn into total b1tches if you are a nice tool and put them on a pedastal, hence why guys want to turn into DJs to fix their game. Im not at college yet, but im presuming this will countinue with girls.

But is there a time when the C+F, 3 Day # rule, all that stuff should be dropped because it stops working and works against you? Is there an age when girls drop the whole 'oh but this other guy is so much better...bye bye!' and actually be sincere. Im presuming so or else people wouldnt get married that much, then again everyone divorced now! So can women ever be trusted, because everytime I trust one I get screwed and everytime I just play a game being a DJ with them I get *****.

 

[charlie brown]

im at college and the advice i can give is dont even worry about all that. i focus on being happy myself and not whether i can trust a girl. i assume theyre being flirted with and see guys other than me so i flirt with alot of girls and date more than one. go to your classes, volunteer somewhere, smoke grass, make friends and girls will take a back seat. some will even come to you. o yea dont smoke grass if u dont wanna. with this approach so far, girls see that i am indeed busy and dont have time for their crap.

 

[LiqK]

Your thinking that girls are *****es is really just a psychological coping mechanism (intellectualization). You try and rationalize their behavior to downplay your shortcomings in game. I by no means impy this to be an insult. But to get these girls, you need to re-evaluate your game. You need to focus more on attracting a girl rather than trying to establish a relationship quickly. Make sure she is genuinely interested. This is crucial. A girl may date you but screw you over for some other guy because although she is comfortable with you, there isn't enough attraction to keep her interested. Try just attracting girls for a while without going for the relationship. This should give you more practice and allow you to further your ability to attract so you can get the relationship after she is putty in your hands.

 

[English_Bloke]

Thanks for the responses, especially LiqK. - no offence taken, you made a good point now that I really think about it, im doing to BC so im going to be working on this for the next 6 more weeks.

 

[DJ4Real]

Actually, girls are always nice. It's all in the matter of taking control ( not too much control, but be dominate).

It's about making her respect you.