when did you realize you where getting better

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Aantwerp

New Member

Nov 19, 2016

i consider myself a purple pill atm.
still AFC but i know there is something wrong and working on my way too shake this off now my question to you guys out of curiosity is when did you realize you where getting better at game and what actions did you do that got you there?

personally after reading the bible i already started not trying to please woman anymore. i was convinced this was the way to go blinded by stereotype dating movies and songs now i always was a bit arrogant but now that i'm not holding back for women anymore if often find myself in a position where they are asking approval from me.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.