"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When did you lose your Virginity?

When did you lose your virginity?

  • 14 or younger

    Votes: 5 9.8%
  • 15

    Votes: 1 2.0%
  • 16

    Votes: 6 11.8%
  • 17

    Votes: 3 5.9%
  • 18

    Votes: 13 25.5%
  • 19

    Votes: 10 19.6%
  • 20

    Votes: 1 2.0%
  • 21

    Votes: 4 7.8%
  • 22

    Votes: 1 2.0%
  • 23 or older

    Votes: 7 13.7%

  • Total voters
    51

donjuan87

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When did you lose your virginity? Please answer, and be honest.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Boner da Stoner

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lol, every time it was with my sisters friends.... I was the kid who liked to annoy anybody, and girls got mad the easiest;)

But even thinking of how old I was makes me feel like a pedophile...

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VSIDEBOY

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
lol, every time it was with my sisters friends.... I was the kid who liked to annoy anybody, and girls got mad the easiest;)

But even thinking of how old I was makes me feel like a pedophile...

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EVERY TIME????


DUDE how many times can you lose it?
 

Boner da Stoner

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lol, naievity is the plague of a child's memory...

thats the way I tell how I lost mine, I've got a bunch of memories about "my first time" I can't remember which one was really the first one...

It had to be the girl on hte other block, cause it was the only one I remember when I was asking myself why this is special... "it's so stupid" I remember, pants down, on a bed... wow... so special:p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lebRambo

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I was 18, and i'm glad that 18-19 seems to be about the average :D
 

lets_do_this

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19 to a prostitute.. lol sad yes.

then the next sex came from a ugly FB.

Im cool now though.
 
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