"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When did you first have sex with your long-lerm partner?

The_Reaper

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After meeting for the first time - a few days, weeks, months? I've been with a girl about a week now...no sex yet though, I haven't unleashed the beast.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sexy_kuta

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i expect within the first two month,s usually around the 3rd date..
 

Nighthawk

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In all my relationships, on the first or second 'date.'
 

WheyProtein

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well for me, my first real relationship / longterm.. in which i just got out of .. it took me about 5 months.. the girl was stuck on waiting for marriage, she had a long term before me and the guy wanted to bang her so bad and kept using love as a manipulation to have sex with him but she never did. i never mentioned sex. i really didnt want it i was happy enough. but we ended up doin it after 5 months... and like 80 times since.. never once used a condem. i truely believe shes prolly the only girl i can get away doin that with. im sure any other girl would get pregnant the first fck...
 

tuxen

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When i was younger and didnt know what i was doing, i'd have a limit of 2 months.

Now, 2nd date or approx 6-8 hours(of time together, can be spaced out over days/weeks).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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