Dhoulmagus
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My grandparents can't fathom the fact that average and ugly girls are just as stuck up as hot girls were back in there day.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When did it get difficult to even game average girls
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Where are they getting this perspective from? you? other people? (social) media? and what exactly is being said?
amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
yes OP, i agree. but there is no context in your post.
It all comes down to entitlement. The value of average women has increased while the value of an average man has decreased. AFC's ^ -> percieved value of HB's ^ as well.
Science.
Sexual selection at its finest.
J. Cole says, "What that taught us, the bad bvtches only want the ballers"
It all comes down to entitlement. The value of average women has increased while the value of an average man has decreased. AFC's ^ -> percieved value of HB's ^ as well.
Science.
Sexual selection at its finest.
J. Cole says, "What that taught us, the bad bvtches only want the ballers"
PeasantPlayer
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OP, I would say about 2007 ish and up maybe a year or 2 later. Gaming average to below average chicks was so easy it was pathetic. Now a days when I step out with the fellas, you can't even game average, chubby below average chicks, they are more stuck up then the prettier women go figure. Its been this way since social media blew up. The ratio of thirsty men increased, and the media pushing feminism and Nicki Minaj down the throats of these women. Plus they have wised up on many of the antics of men.
I find it easier to talk to cuter women now then average or ugly heffas.....its their insecurity shield.
On said note...if you can smoothly start up a conversation with a attractive girl and you are "out of her league looks or financial wise" and you can start a conversation with out creeping her out she will respect you more for being able to talk to her.
I find it easier to talk to cuter women now then average or ugly heffas.....its their insecurity shield.
On said note...if you can smoothly start up a conversation with a attractive girl and you are "out of her league looks or financial wise" and you can start a conversation with out creeping her out she will respect you more for being able to talk to her.
seasonedplayer
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Tinder and other dating apps have destroyed online and offline dating and picking up
Quite simply, girls now get hundreds of 'approaches' every day. Prior to online only guys with balls would approach women. And prior to apps, girls got only a few emails on sites like match
Quite simply, girls now get hundreds of 'approaches' every day. Prior to online only guys with balls would approach women. And prior to apps, girls got only a few emails on sites like match
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
dutchmaster
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In this hookup culture peoplel are fvcking more than ever. Who cares if she's stuck up, she'll still suck your d1ck.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Wrong, people fvcked more in the 20th century. The difference now and then overall is that our generations are having less sex but more partners, and they had more sex with fewer partners.dutchmaster said:
I noticed this 2 years ago after I got out of a ltr that started in 2007. There were women I thought would be easy to game because I lowered my standards. Well, I ended up getting rejected and was shocked.PeasantPlayer said:
You need to hang around girls for a few months before they start developing crushes. They are too desensitized by media to respond in the short term in most cases. That said, you should still have love at first sight with certain women. Those are the ones that lead to enjoyable long term relationships.
Desperate faggot betas and their need for female validation have made it so that even borderline ugly women get non-stop male attention. So that basically lowers the value of male attention and makes most women believe they "deserve" much better than they do.
As long as men continue to humiliate themselves and have no dignity when faced with an opportunity for poon, this will never change.
Not a sermon just a thought.
As long as men continue to humiliate themselves and have no dignity when faced with an opportunity for poon, this will never change.
Not a sermon just a thought.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Poonani Maker
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In OLD, I'm currently getting this, and at this moment, because I am sick of fatties -- that's all I've had in the past couple of months after a hot young thin lay
In OLD, I'm am currently just Fvcking with them (I know WASTING my time, but whatever), They will ask what I do for a living and I'll say something low value like OTR truck driver, and they. just. disappear. after I say something like that. It's funny as hell because she's not only FAT, or boring chunky body in her pics, but also, just Weird or also Ugly in the face. But she'll contact me and say, "Have you ever been a model? because you definitely could." I say, "I need work nude modeling on the weekend if you want to hire me" and she laughs asks more questions etc etc. But seriously, these are the kinda chicks that SHOULD be PAYING me for a date or for sex. It's insanity that they can just write me off when I throw out a low-value response like, "I'm an OTR truck driver" (I'm not, but actually have a kickass career). I mean, she thinks just because she is a (though fat/ugly) Nurse, that she's somehow better than me, smarter than I am.
But I throw out low value because, I'm trying to get rid of them without being rude, and it works, but she doesn't have the nerve to investigate Me further than my job, so FVCK HER. That just tells me all about HER, that Even Though she's fat n' ugly, she thinks she Deserves a dude with a great job (which I have) and model looks. So SAD, but let her drag down another dude not me. I want nothing to do with her, but I will TALK to these fat ones, in the event that I end up fvcking them, but I certainly would just do it to get my rocks off when I'm hungry and then try to exit stage right. I like hard fvcking and fat ones tend to like that hard doggy too.
In OLD, I'm am currently just Fvcking with them (I know WASTING my time, but whatever), They will ask what I do for a living and I'll say something low value like OTR truck driver, and they. just. disappear. after I say something like that. It's funny as hell because she's not only FAT, or boring chunky body in her pics, but also, just Weird or also Ugly in the face. But she'll contact me and say, "Have you ever been a model? because you definitely could." I say, "I need work nude modeling on the weekend if you want to hire me" and she laughs asks more questions etc etc. But seriously, these are the kinda chicks that SHOULD be PAYING me for a date or for sex. It's insanity that they can just write me off when I throw out a low-value response like, "I'm an OTR truck driver" (I'm not, but actually have a kickass career). I mean, she thinks just because she is a (though fat/ugly) Nurse, that she's somehow better than me, smarter than I am.
But I throw out low value because, I'm trying to get rid of them without being rude, and it works, but she doesn't have the nerve to investigate Me further than my job, so FVCK HER. That just tells me all about HER, that Even Though she's fat n' ugly, she thinks she Deserves a dude with a great job (which I have) and model looks. So SAD, but let her drag down another dude not me. I want nothing to do with her, but I will TALK to these fat ones, in the event that I end up fvcking them, but I certainly would just do it to get my rocks off when I'm hungry and then try to exit stage right. I like hard fvcking and fat ones tend to like that hard doggy too.
zekko
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I appreciate people's frustration, but is it really THAT difficult? if you are a high value guy you will be getting some positive responses. And if you are low value, the problem is really with you, yes?
It's hard for a lot of younger guys in the dating game because they haven't built their value yet. When you build it, they will come.
It's hard for a lot of younger guys in the dating game because they haven't built their value yet. When you build it, they will come.
When you look good, beautiful women will approach you. When you don't look good, fat women will run.
How good you look can vary greatly day to day and especially month to month. If you're getting rejected, you probably have "the layer" - when your body gets fatter than you think but you don't realize it. You must constantly diet and exercise to stay your best.
How good you look can vary greatly day to day and especially month to month. If you're getting rejected, you probably have "the layer" - when your body gets fatter than you think but you don't realize it. You must constantly diet and exercise to stay your best.