When chicks write you only to reject you?

[Maximummax]

How do i handle this situation
I know all the hoppaloopa of online dating, you will some time come across when a chick writes you an email( which is a reply) only to reject you
how do you guys handle this, just next her or any other way to way deal with this.

 

[Chamber36]

Tell her that she wouldn't bother writing you an email if she didn't secretly like you.

 

[rsxtreme]

Rejection comes in all types of form.. With this online stuff always have a positive mindset but always be prepared for rejection..

 

[Maximummax]

should i just next her or send a reply

 

[Jitterbug]

How do you prefer to be rejected then?

Can't a woman say no without you guys getting your panties in a knot over it?

 

[QueRico]

I would reply:

Dear SOandSo:

No sweat, I agree with you, we probably would not have worked out anyways. As a side note, I will now be able to accept Kate's invitation to Will's wedding, I do very much like the way she carries herself in front of people, very classy and elegant. Alright then, see you around and best of luck to you.

Me

 

[Mike32ct]

Just next her. It's not worth your time to respond unless she gave you a really nasty rejection.

 

[Iceberg]

should i just next her or send a reply

Next her? She nexted you. What the F else is there to say?

 

[nismo-4]

Don't respond. Next her. Move on. Don't waste time trying to change her mind.

Case closed. Keep on truckin'.

 

[blueeyedgent]

I would politely reply back then leave her alone. Especially if you are correcting a misinterpretation she has about you.

I have had a chick write me back months later, and ended up closing with her..

 

[Maximummax]

Yup, thats what i did buddy.
i wrote her and left her alone, she didn't replied back. I don't care whether she does or not.

 

[J Roc]

why reply back to a girl that doesnt like you?

 

[Maximummax]

We will have three options to deal with it
1) one to respond to her **** test/rejection
2) leave her alone.
or
write to her and leave her alone

 

[Iceberg]

We will have three options to deal with it
1) one to respond to her **** test/rejection
2) leave her alone.
or
write to her and leave her alone

Well, yeah...see, but here's the thing.

You're talking about online dating. So when you're rejected, it's a pure rejection. Not a sh*t test rejection (which I don't believe in, anyway). The girl looked at your profile and your pictures and said "I'm not intrigued by this guy at all. Not even a little bit." In fact, she was so turned off that she felt a need to WRITE TO YOU to tell you that. A normal person would just ignore.

So option #2 is the only thing that makes sense. Because what else is there to say?

This is a very strange question, my friend.

 

[ArcBound]

How do i handle this situation
I know all the hoppaloopa of online dating, you will some time come across when a chick writes you an email( which is a reply) only to reject you
how do you guys handle this, just next her or any other way to way deal with this.

You don't handle anything.

She explicitly rejected you meaning ANYTHING you do or say you are doing it under the frame that you are trying to get her back. Nothing you can do can really remedy this.

If a woman rejects you, it's smarter to go for another woman rather than wasting your time with the hypothetical and writing messages to get a reaction out of her.

 

[Vice]

how do you guys handle this, just next her or any other way to way deal with this.

Here's another way to deal with this:

Go out and interact with real people instead of using the computer as a crutch.

 

[BillieAnn]

Be good. Another will come .. better than the girl who breaks you electronically.