"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When chicks tell you everything about themselves right at the start

Rudra

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Time and again I have noticed that you should really listen to what chicks tell you about themselves in the beginning, because if you lead them to it, they tell you the cold hard truth about themselves without hesitation.

If a chick tells you that she is a mean cold and heartless beotch, then she probably is just that. If she tells you that at heart she is a bad person, then pay heed to this. If she tells you that she cannot be trusted, then don´t. If she tells you that she spent half her youth drunk with some biker posse and twice already was sold for a handful of coke and a carburator, then chances are high that it´s the truth. First, second and third example I personally got told and by myself found out that it was the truth. And two of them I boned, so it was definitely not to get rid of me.

The truth? Why would girls tell negative things about themselves? Why would they risk putting us off? We never would tell them that we spent some weeks with a guy named Bubba behind bars, would we? That we were virgin until 32? That we are irresponsible, spineless and lazy?

It´s because they have all the goods, they don´t have to put up a facade and run game like we do, they know we want them even if she would tell us that she is Jeffrey Dahmers younger sister, so she doesn´t have to hold back with stuff. But that´s only my 2 cents.

Guys on the other hand always tend not to listen because "it´s all chick bla bla anyway" and the only interesting thing is her two bags of lard with nipples on it and that funny thang between her legs.

Wrong. Listen carefully to what chicks tell you in the beginnin. Make them tell you stuff about themselves, how they see themselves etc. Listen to what you can get out of them, and they will tell you everything. And if that is not what you would want, then, as my uncle, the Reverend Rudra, says - Run for the hills, bro.

Any thoughts on this? Similar experiences? Different explanations? Is it only me doing wonders in buiding rapport and fYcking up building attraction? Is it chick´s Rudra repellent after all? =))
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bonez

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I've had so many women hide this stuff from me, I wish at least one of them had the gall to tell me in the beginning.
 

Serialized3

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I dunno, if I've learned one thing is that talk is cheap and a lot of women have no problem lying to you about things, especially in the beginning. I usually think that a lot of women are trying to paint a good picture about themselves when they first start talking to you. I think the most negative things any girl has said about themselves to me at the beginning was letting me know that they had low-self-esteem or something like that, or that they had been hurt in a previous relationship. Nothing like "Yeah I use guys for coke".

I tend to pay more attention to how a woman acts, rather than what she says. Little inconsistenies in her speech patterns and shifts in her body language usually tell me when she's lying, or conveniently leaving out a crucial part of something that she tells me. I tend to go with my gut feeling, and If I feel like I'm being tooled, I withdraw and next.

For example: I once was out on a "date" with this girl, and she kept texting someone on her phone. I asked her who it was, and she said it was her sister. I saw her screen and she was actually texting a dude that worked at my job. 20 minutes later, this guy actually showed up to the bar we were at and came and sat down like he was invited. I was pissed, and I asked him to leave, but he wouldn't, so I basically had to blow him out (which sucked because we were work buddies before this hor). I called bullsh!t on this girl as soon as he left, and she still continued to say that she had been texting her sister and not this guy. Then I told her I had seen her screen and that I knew she was texting him all along. Then, in classic woman fashion, she got upset at ME for "spying" on her. :rolleyes:

Next, b!tch, just next....
 
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