"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When chicks look sad to leave you?

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So the few girls I've actually interacted with, and been attracted to, all seem to have one similar characteristic, and I want to understand what it means.

When we part ways, they always look at me with sad puppydog eyes, what does this mean or suggest?

edit: I know this sort of question may be situational, and because of this, I added the exact situation in which this happened, here is the link (my second post in this thread) You may want to read it if you are interested in helping, to understand the context. Thank you if you can do so: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1613828&postcount=5
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That they are females... Simply as that... Either they 're happy about it or ain't happy about it, most females will have that look upon their face! :)
 

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If you're leaving them wanting more of you, it means you are doing something right.
 

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Thank you all for your posts so far. I recognize two mistakes I've been making, one in regards to this post: I didn't give you enough information.

I understand that these sorts of things are entirely situational.. So let me describe the situations, luckily, there were only 2 (2 of 2 hot girls I've been interested in and met through class, like I (may have) said in another thread, I am becoming more social, but still feel I need an excuse to talk to a female) and their circumstances were the same.

We had a generally good time, they both were behaving the same way in the interaction, same basic interaction styles, one was standing really really close to me, the other wasn't as close but still closer than normal people, asking me questions when the convo died down, mimicking my behaviours (sometimes non-verbal, sometimes verbal) and these were both women who I had a real thing for, and with both of them, we had been in groups before, and together alone before, but never left eachother while we were alone - that look happened when we left eachother for the 1st time we were alone together, for both of them.

On my part, I didn't kino in the interaction (we would maybe touch occasionally in class as we sat beside eachother, but not while standing up), and didn't ask for their number or a hug or kiss or anything as the interaction came to an end, despite wanting to. I also wasn't really "trying material" or anything, just being me, and to be honest, not doing a very good job either, from my view.

In this thread, I've seen basically the full spectrum of answers, and I'm thinking that's because each person is applying their own imagined situation onto this. I'm sorry I wasn't more specific, so with this in mind, could you guys re-evaluate your theories and post, even if it's just "yea I'm still sure of what I said" and to those of you who haven't yet, tell me what you think based on your experiences and the details of these situations?

Thank you
 
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