jackmode211
Don Juan
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- Nov 26, 2007
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whats up folks.....i been on sites similiar to this site forever (longer than i care to admit considering some of the mistakes ive made...i found becomeaplayer.com when i was a freshmen in high school....and i graduated in 05).....while this sites philosphy is a little diffrent(the player and the don juan) and learned a lot....(but ive learned a lot more in the past month than i have in the past 6 years....because i went on my first date 2 sundays ago, my second date last sunday, which was also the same time as my first kiss(not iniated by me((stupid me))....she later txted that next time we chill she wants me to do something i havent done before....basicly make the moves....and be more agressive....because frankly im supposed to...
after realising this and reading "the book of pook"...(brilliant) I am more than willing to be more agressive....im pretty sure im going into this with the right mindset...
....im not hung up on the girl.....shes cool....but what i want out of seeing her on these dates more than anything is expirence and to learn....
so far shes done most of the initiating....and she shouldent have to...period...and im in the right mindset now to fix that....i now see things they way the should be....thats not the problem....
i WANT to see this girl because i already have some rapport....something ive NEVER had with any girl...so naturally i want to move FORWARD with my learning expirence...i want to learn by expirence when to kiss her/use kino on her/how to talk to her....
at the same time i dont want to come off NEEDY because i call her to try to set up another date...i dont want my NEED to learn to come off as NEED for her....
....ive already been one girls pet...and it will NEVER EVER happen again...i do not consider myself an AFC.....i belive im at the point where im an RAFC (recovering)....i belive i have the right mindset.....this time its about learning.....not the girl....how do i show that i want to see her...without appearing needy????
also what kinda hints will a woman give you when shes not attracted or not interested???
after realising this and reading "the book of pook"...(brilliant) I am more than willing to be more agressive....im pretty sure im going into this with the right mindset...
....im not hung up on the girl.....shes cool....but what i want out of seeing her on these dates more than anything is expirence and to learn....
so far shes done most of the initiating....and she shouldent have to...period...and im in the right mindset now to fix that....i now see things they way the should be....thats not the problem....
i WANT to see this girl because i already have some rapport....something ive NEVER had with any girl...so naturally i want to move FORWARD with my learning expirence...i want to learn by expirence when to kiss her/use kino on her/how to talk to her....
at the same time i dont want to come off NEEDY because i call her to try to set up another date...i dont want my NEED to learn to come off as NEED for her....
....ive already been one girls pet...and it will NEVER EVER happen again...i do not consider myself an AFC.....i belive im at the point where im an RAFC (recovering)....i belive i have the right mindset.....this time its about learning.....not the girl....how do i show that i want to see her...without appearing needy????
also what kinda hints will a woman give you when shes not attracted or not interested???