When 'Bros before Hoes' dies...

[Rebound Material]

Some of you remember my blog about what to do if an ex wants to "talk"...well, I never really got around to telling what happened during that talk, but lets just say that we're on totally bad terms right now. Hell, I think a bridge is burned. Anyways, turned out this bi-tch had a BF during our talk and wasnt planning on getting back with me. Also, after I totally gave her a guilt trip and a piece of my NEW fcukin mind set, her ass was almost in tears. She didnt drop one though which kinda dissapointed me cuz hell she said she was crying for me...so i was thinking to myself "then cry me a fcukin river *****!". Anyways, karma hit her ass the less than a week from our talk cuz her and her LTR BF(they went out for LESS than 3 weeks) broke up. muhahahahaha! But sh!ts still fcuked up cuz she's been totally accepted in my usual circle of friends and she totally got them against me except for a few loyal ones...Anyways, now shes talking to one of my FORMER close homeboys... This was the guy I ran to when I needed help with getting over her. This was the guy I had more history than her. This was also the guy that said "bros before hoes"...I really don't know where to stand between the 2 because first off, this former homeboy backstabbed me. I dunno whether to warn him that this chick is a serial dater(came to the conclusion due to dating history), or let his ass learn on his own...Chicks will almost ruin a group of good guy friends. In the same sense, you also learn who your TRUE friends are in that group...Just wanted to share this...





...btw, i am BUZZZZIN!! hahaha. Alright DJ's good night!

 

[Weak_Game]

Ive has the same issues at times. With Some "friends" becoming friends with an ex girlfriend of mine. When that happens, i drop them. Ive noticed my "REAL" friends instantly dislike my X's no matter the reason of the breakup. She was my girl now shes not, so there is no reason she would be in my circle of friends and cause anymore awkwardness and or pain. I had a friend hang out with an ex then she gets brought up. I dont wanna hear that crap, so hes no longer a pal. My real pals are anti my x's because there my friends not hers.

Make new friends.

 

[Rebound Material]

Yea, ive been kickin it with friends from high school for almost a month since that incident...It sucks because when I went to college, I just kinda left them and never really said whats up for the past 2 years. Then all of a sudden my ass comes back but they still treat me like family and like I never left...All we do these summer nights is drink, smoke, texas hold em, listen to music and share our stories about dumb bi-tches. If anything, these guys have been through way worse shi.t than I have and we can all relate about a certain c.u.n.t. who went and ruined the brotherhood.

 

[Hitman10000]

I never believed in the bros before hos bullshat. I believe in "Are you with me or against me."

 

[Rebound Material]

I never believed in the bros before hos bullshat. I believe in "Are you with me or against me."

From what ive learned on this site and in life, the bi-tch should never be above your friends or anything. I have a set of priorities:

1)ME
2)Family
3)School
4)Work
5)Friends
6)then last, the bi-tch

She should never be above any of that. She should come last. The Power of Pvssy will not prevail on me.

 

[Chosen1]

From what ive learned on this site and in life, the bi-tch should never be above your friends or anything. I have a set of priorities:

1)ME
2)Family
3)School
4)Work
5)Friends
6)then last, the bi-tch

She should never be above any of that. She should come last. The Power of Pvssy will not prevail on me.

my order of priorities are

1.Me
2.Family
3.My career/hobbies
4.b!tches

I"m done with school and consider friends family

 

[MacDiddy]

Dude, you should encourage your friend to get with this $lut..... Coz there's nothing you can do to prevent it. I mean, how can any kok say no!! You need to adopt the mindset that its OK. your not together anymore and you don't control her, but you can allow her to make life difficult for you if you let it. So chill, accept, keep your friendship, move on... dont be bitter, and you'll find that she's 50% getting with your friend to spite you and 50% to have something to do.

There is no such thing as bros before ho. If adhering to abstinence was easy, so would all this ****.

 

[Chosen1]

Dude, you should encourage your friend to get with this $lut..... Coz there's nothing you can do to prevent it. I mean, how can any kok say no!! You need to adopt the mindset that its OK. your not together anymore and you don't control her, but you can allow her to make life difficult for you if you let it. So chill, accept, keep your friendship, move on... dont be bitter, and you'll find that she's 50% getting with your friend to spite you and 50% to have something to do.

There is no such thing as bros before ho. If adhering to abstinence was easy, so would all this ****.

i agree as long as they don't talk about you it's all good i wouldn't really care if my guy got with my girl but i would not get with his because (i don't like her)

 

[Rebound Material]

Dude, you should encourage your friend to get with this $lut..... Coz there's nothing you can do to prevent it. I mean, how can any kok say no!! You need to adopt the mindset that its OK. your not together anymore and you don't control her, but you can allow her to make life difficult for you if you let it. So chill, accept, keep your friendship, move on... dont be bitter, and you'll find that she's 50% getting with your friend to spite you and 50% to have something to do.

There is no such thing as bros before ho. If adhering to abstinence was easy, so would all this ****.

i agree as long as they don't talk about you it's all good i wouldn't really care if my guy got with my girl but i would not get with his because (i don't like her)

ahhh, I love the suggestions. I seriously wanna learn how to be happy about this sh!t and that takes some time...about that spiting thing...im pretty sure you're right, I mean afterall, shes a damn serial dater. I bet her ass is just doing this to get attention and thats why she jumps from one dood to the next.

Chosen1....they're talking about me. My homeboy is weak. He was the one that snitched on me about alot of crap that I specifically said TO KEEP SECRET. And its been a while since ive been with my usual group of friends, but according to the last 2 friends that are loyal to me, there's been alot of negative talk about me going around. "oh, he's starting/holding drama", "he's turning into something he's not"(thank you sosuave:yes...Yea, even if she wasnt there and I were to kick it with these guys, theres still gonna be a bias...yea, she got them against me.

It amazes me how girls can win sympathy so easily.

 

[Chosen1]

ahhh, I love the suggestions. I seriously wanna learn how to be happy about this sh!t and that takes some time...about that spiting thing...im pretty sure you're right, I mean afterall, shes a damn serial dater. I bet her ass is just doing this to get attention and thats why she jumps from one dood to the next.

Chosen1....they're talking about me. My homeboy is weak. He was the one that snitched on me about alot of crap that I specifically said TO KEEP SECRET. And its been a while since ive been with my usual group of friends, but according to the last 2 friends that are loyal to me, there's been alot of negative talk about me going around. "oh, he's starting/holding drama", "he's turning into something he's not"(thank you sosuave:yes...Yea, even if she wasnt there and I were to kick it with these guys, theres still gonna be a bias...yea, she got them against me.

It amazes me how girls can win sympathy so easily.

that's one thing i learned from my friend is never tell them anything that is damaging at all my friend is a mama's boy and he told him mom that i had porn that he looked so i don't have secrets you'll find yourself freeer and secondly he wasn't your true friend either because if i was your friend i woundn't tell anybody your secrets tha's just me thouh i'm loyal

 

[Pimp-sicle]

So basically your not over the chick and now your jealous because she's into your friend. Well if she's a "serial dater" and no good, then let him figure that out. By you warning him about her, they'll both just think your a jealous chump.

No girl should come between two good friends, and unfortunately you will learn as you go through life that A LOT of the people you considered close friends are nothing more than douche bags.



PIMP

 

[Rebound Material]

So basically your not over the chick and now your jealous because she's into your friend. Well if she's a "serial dater" and no good, then let him figure that out. By you warning him about her, they'll both just think your a jealous chump.

No girl should come between two good friends, and unfortunately you will learn as you go through life that A LOT of the people you considered close friends are nothing more than douche bags.



PIMP

you're right man. The last person you can ever lie to is yourselfand like ive said a bunch of times before, "id be lying off my ass if i were to say that i were completely over this b!tch.". I can honestly say though that I dont like her anymore, but i still do care for her. Its pretty whack. But anyways, yea, ill let my "homeboy" learn on his own and the whole group for that matter. but as for now, im gonna stay clear from those guys and just chill with the boys that have and WILL always be "the boys" to me.


as for bros before hoes, i still live up to it.

 

[PRMoon]

It's rare for a guy to stick to the bro's before hoe's guideline EVERY time a situation is presented. Some of the time this is how you should gauge your friends. If everytime you go out and your friend ditches you for a girl, makes himself look better inspite of a girl, ask you for unecssary favors to gain intrest of a girl etc etc, then let's face it, that's not really your friend, that's your parasite. If however you've got a really hot firend who's a girl and your friend takes it upon himself to game her with you there, or there's a blindingly hot girl who your friend is working angles on but hasn't completely forgotten you, then you should let things like that slide, you guys are cool.

In this case where your ex is invading your circle of friends, then you have two options. You can fight or you can let things play out on their own. If you do elect to fight then you have to be TACT about it, meaning you have to do it in such a way where you're just giving out the facts (good and bad) about the person with no emotions displayed. If you seem alof about the whole thing and above it all, you'll look like the champ instead of the chump. If you elect to let things play out on their own, you may not have friends for a while, util they see how scandalous she is and how you did no wrong by breaking up with her.

You should also learn to cope with your feelings for your ex. Moving on isn't the easiest thing in the world, but if you're going to be interacting with her still, then you need to get your sh*t together and learn how to ignore those lingering feeligns.

 

[IsiMan84]

Bros before hoes, but self first.