"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When Belief becomes Reality

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It's long been my opinion that for some reason everything I wish for will come to me, it will just take a while and frustrate the baked beans out of me in the process. We have all been there, stuck in the middle of a life change, a work change, a sex change... We know it has to be done, we believe in it with all our heart yet the time it takes throws doubt at us.

Yet despite this you keep your head down, you keep going, because YOU BELIEVE. You have the DESIRE and definite purpose. You know that above all things it would be a crime to give up. A day off is a mistake, quitting full time is a travesty. Never quit, acknowledge failures and move on to the next effort. Failure cannot possibly compete with persistence. Persistence will always win out by its very nature. Last night the months of practice and almost achievement, half victories and nearly examples became a cast iron victory. My new social skill set treated me to a wonderful night and worked an absolute charm. My social observations showed me everything I was doing was working, and even though my hair was ruined (something that has made me go home in the past and quit), I ended up getting the phone number of an extremely attractive hard to talk to girl... Who of course turned out to be really sweet when you get to know her. Never underestimate the power of the backturn.

Last night was so much fun, I had great people, a great city and great times. I have a new website idea and an incredible design that I'm very proud of. There is no option, I will be an amazing success because I BELIEVE.

To quote Audio "The best ones are when you get past them trying to blow you out". Never give up!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Beleif is so important, its impossible to stress just how important it is.

Theres a fable that goes like the foolish man built his house upon the sand, the wiseman built his house upon a rock. The idea of beleifs correspond with that analogy perfectly as its them that are the foundation of everyting you do.

You know when somebody convinces themselves SO much that something is true that they start to beelive it and this leaves a noticable effect? Heres how it could be simplified, you are in a house that is reputedly haunted and you are with a friend, he beleives in it but you don't, he starts to "hear" things that aren't there...and then his unshakeable beleif that the house IS HAUNTED begins to rub off on you, and YOU start to hear things.

Now what if we put this in a positive context, outside of a haunted house. Where you beleive in yourself so unshakably that it rubs off on others.
And its so simple to get into this state of mind, infact its too simple, its just allowing yourself to beleive it.
Thats where we have the magic bullet of confidence that the ladies love. They are the wisemen who built thir houses on the rock.
 

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We are not outcome dependant because we assume success and are not afraid of failure. It is nothing to us :D
 
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