"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When being a DJ will get you out of jail...

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ChrizZ

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Fvck the homeless natural.

This guy is my new hero. :cheer:
 

Mr. Me

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Goes to show you the power of Interest Level.
 

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http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/2pac/whenigetfreeii.html

And my C.O. is a lady, and I'm thinkin maybe
me and her can hook up a scheme, to be Swayze
Cause she keep on callin me baby, to a young
mother****er facin eighty that's enough to make me crazy
Now how long will it take, to get a hook
Got her watchin me liftin weights, sneakin looks
I devised a plan, I'm in the trunk while she drives
but man, ain't no disguise I'ma die as a man
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Charm will get you a long way in life. We complain about feminism, but if not for it, then there would not be so many women with power - whom to charm into doing our bidding. I plan to charm a lot of lady judges and jurors if I end up working as a trial attorney. When I worked in sales, almost all of my sales were to women. Being charming paid the bills. It also got me a ride home last month when my gf got a dui driving my drunk ass around and the cops impounded my car. I walked into a gas station at 3 am in the middle of nowhere with no wallet, no money, and no phone, and I had a ride home literally within two minutes, after talking to this teenage girl who was with her bf. I was not hitting on the girl, who was pretty hot, btw, merely talking to her, but she was the one telling her bf to give the the ride home, which was about thirty miles. I ended up giving them money for gas after they took me home, but it was being charming that made them trust me enough to pick up a stranger.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Charm will get you a long way in life. We complain about feminism, but if not for it, then there would not be so many women with power - whom to charm into doing our bidding. I plan to charm a lot of lady judges and jurors if I end up working as a trial attorney. When I worked in sales, almost all of my sales were to women. Being charming paid the bills. It also got me a ride home last month when my gf got a dui driving my drunk ass around and the cops impounded my car. I walked into a gas station at 3 am in the middle of nowhere with no wallet, no money, and no phone, and I had a ride home literally within two minutes, after talking to this teenage girl who was with her bf. I was not hitting on the girl, who was pretty hot, btw, merely talking to her, but she was the one telling her bf to give the the ride home, which was about thirty miles. I ended up giving them money for gas after they took me home, but it was being charming that made them trust me enough to pick up a stranger.
Very true, a very large part of succeeding in a career or business has to to with how charming, personable, and trustworthy you appear. Thats why this site and forum is so great, and is always promoting overall life improvement rather than just for being a PUA. Some of the skills that help a PUA are the same skills that can nail a job interview of get a promotion, or get just about anything you want out of someone. Just like how this guys got out of jail, and you got a ride home.
 
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Well, I don't feel like I have any charm and below average looks, and don't have a concept of what charm is, other than feeling inadequate on it.

I believe charm is coming across as a cool, confident and with it together guy that just connects nicely with the person you want to manipulate to the point they feel you are doing them a favour rather than the other way around. So, that's my concept of it from what I have read on here or what I think.

I would like to see some threads that go into more detail about the idea of 'charm', since it seems like a root concept on something and am doing searches for them now and reading into them.
 
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