When at her place

[hockeyfreak79]

Should have isolated her. What the fvck are you doing watching youtube vids? I am sorry, but that just sounds so ridiculous.

You didn't get laid because you didn't lead, AND sitting around watching youtube videos? Who does that? lol

Haha nothing wrong YouTube videos. You start with the funny ones and switch over to some songs. Next thing you know they are dancing around to this.

I've had more woman strip down in my living room to YouTube vids more so than some lame a** movie or tv show. It may sound ridiculous to you but it's worked for me. Haha no shame here!

 

[jaymbrs]

Reread and missed the cuddling on the couch bit, so you've escalated and she's putting up a definite boundary. I would still push it, little by little. Make it like foreplay, when the roommate slips off to another room or out of sight. It can be easy to get impatient and just want to smash right away. If it's a chic you really like or really like to smash, employ a little patience and take it back to that teenage experience with your first girlfriend at the movie theater, make it erotic and see if she gets a kick out of it and have fun with being young again. If you're busting nuts on the side, it shouldn't matter and a welcomed challenge, so long as she's letting you escalate a little further and building sexual tension. If she's not, well you're busting nuts on the side.

Lol
I sat there gathering my thoughts on what to do while she kept putting her legs on top of mine. So I started feeling on her thighs while looking at her to see if I could get a reaction. Didn't really get one. Instead she puts her head on my shoulder and that's when she started dozing off.

 

[jaymbrs]

And then she tries to keep you out in the open with her roommate? Basically a rejection. Maybe before you go over there you can clarify "so were going to watch movies in your room"?

I honestly just need to get her back to my place. I don't have roommates so I won't have that problem. Problem is I already tried getting her back to my place on another date and she claims to have a DWI so she doesn't like the idea of drinking and driving nor did she want to stay over. She'd rather go to her place.

 

[Vantagepoint34]

Dingo is the only one that said the same thing as me. Also this is a classic DJ Fingz situation. But whatever it is you go back and try again. This is threesome territory so you planted the seed with first visit and now you plan it again. Within three attempts you can get a threesome. If you want reread DJ Fingz accounts theres not that many. I've had as much success as threesome, foursome, and at one point five girls. Don't even know what that's called but two of them were actresses, one singer, and a tennis girl that still plays tennis. Succeeded the dream with five blondes. All in all this is the first step. Tip is next time suggest Netflix. But you are in that threesome range. Goodluck true don juan stuff there. Hope to hear updates*

 

[Billtx49]

Problem is I already tried getting her back to my place
She'd rather go to her place.

She doesn’t want sex then unless she will come to your place or no room mate present at hers…
If roomey is always there and that situation doesn’t change, then she’s an active sex blocker.

 

[jaymbrs]

Dingo is the only one that said the same thing as me. Also this is a classic DJ Fingz situation. But whatever it is you go back and try again. This is threesome territory so you planted the seed with first visit and now you plan it again. Within three attempts you can get a threesome. If you want reread DJ Fingz accounts theres not that many. I've had as much success as threesome, foursome, and at one point five girls. Don't even know what that's called but two of them were actresses, one singer, and a tennis girl that still plays tennis. Succeeded the dream with five blondes. All in all this is the first step. Tip is next time suggest Netflix. But you are in that threesome range. Goodluck true don juan stuff there. Hope to hear updates*

Nothing happened that night that even hinted at a possibility for a threesome. The roommate just came off as a loser third wheel.

 

[Vantagepoint34]

Nothing happened that night that even hinted at a possibility for a threesome. The roommate just came off as a loser third wheel.

To reiterate you have to use your shyness as an advantage. Remember follow up with netfix meeting. Just take hints that they want to be your friend. It can happen and play out like that. Then it will come out two years later you can find out what happened and all of a sudden you may have some kind of girlfriend. You can never underestimate the power of planting seeds. I've had girls super shy like the Tennis girl come back one year later when my seed grew and all of sudden was ripe for the picking. She broke into my house. And things escalated from there. Believe you do have something... Oh and thanks for the tips on the euro girl. I recently texted her and could have a meeting soon.

 

[Macaframalama]

Lol
I sat there gathering my thoughts on what to do while she kept putting her legs on top of mine. So I started feeling on her thighs while looking at her to see if I could get a reaction. Didn't really get one. Instead she puts her head on my shoulder and that's when she started dozing off.

Like the crossed her ****ing legs thing, then resting them on yours? And she's dozing off while you're doing this?

 

[Macaframalama]

Dingo is the only one that said the same thing as me. Also this is a classic DJ Fingz situation. But whatever it is you go back and try again. This is threesome territory so you planted the seed with first visit and now you plan it again. Within three attempts you can get a threesome. If you want reread DJ Fingz accounts theres not that many. I've had as much success as threesome, foursome, and at one point five girls. Don't even know what that's called but two of them were actresses, one singer, and a tennis girl that still plays tennis. Succeeded the dream with five blondes. All in all this is the first step. Tip is next time suggest Netflix. But you are in that threesome range. Goodluck true don juan stuff there. Hope to hear updates*

That's what I thought, but this chic is falling asleep on the man. @jaymbrs are investing anything financially in this chic? Is she spilling all her chit onto you?

 

[hockeyfreak79]

maybe she was on her rag

all seriousness tho, you dont go where women have homefield advantage.

Man some of y'all have some weird advice, I find woman are waaay more relaxed when they are in their own home.

 

[jaymbrs]

Like the crossed her ****ing legs thing, then resting them on yours? And she's dozing off while you're doing this?

That's what I thought, but this chic is falling asleep on the man. @jaymbrs are investing anything financially in this chic? Is she spilling all her chit into you?

yea That leg thing. I’m over here grabbing this broads legs and she doesn’t flinch. And no I’m not spending any significant amount of money on this girl. I got her a drink or 2 but she def like to pay for her own stuff. Even got me a drink.

 

[jaymbrs]

Man some of y'all have some weird advice, I find woman are waaay more relaxed when they are in their own home.

Yea me too. Which is why I wasn’t opposed to going there. Just means I have less work to do with relaxing her.

 

[Macaframalama]

yea That leg thing. I’m over here grabbing this broads legs and she doesn’t flinch. And no I’m not spending any significant amount of money on this girl. I got her a drink or 2 but she def like to pay for her own stuff. Even got me a drink.

Hmm... Chics are in it for one of three things, or a combination. Financial, sexual or emotional gratification. If you can't get a handle on it by her actions, then I would consider laying it all out on the table. She knows what's up. Your feeling her thighs up. Have you kissed her and is that the extent you've went feeling her up? Personally, I would go for the gusto, but idc about blowing them out of the water either. I would make my intentions very clear. If she's down for the cause, then she's going to roll with it. I wouldn't use the excuse of her roomy being around either. If you're worried about how she think she might be perceived by the roomy, slip some kino in when she's not looking. Kisses on the neck, ass grabs etc.

 

[jaymbrs]

Hmm... Chics are in it for one of three things, or a combination. Financial, sexual or emotional gratification. If you can't get a handle on it by her actions, then I would consider laying it all out on the table. She knows what's up. Your feeling her thighs up. Have you kissed her and is that the extent you've went feeling her up? Personally, I would go for the gusto, but idc about blowing them out of the water either. I would make my intentions very clear. If she's down for the cause, then she's going to roll with it. I wouldn't use the excuse of her roomy being around either. If you're worried about how she think she might be perceived by the roomy, slip some kino in when she's not looking. Kisses on the neck, ass grabs etc.

I was definitely thinking that’s what I might need to do. We’ve messed around before and grabbed her ass while doing so. I could possibly be overthinking this. But def wanted to know what everyone else thought.

 

[Macaframalama]

I was definitely thinking that’s what I might need to do. We’ve messed around before and grabbed her ass while doing so. I could possibly be overthinking this. But def wanted to know what everyone else thought.

True. You said it hadn't been that long.

 

[jaymbrs]

100%

if you build sexual tension up with women high enough during the course of a few dates and then drop the ball by not letting your instincts take over SHE WILL RESENT YOU.

this shlt happens to me all the time inadvertantly because so many of the women im initially interested in and have a drink with that dont end in lays within 1-2 dates i lose complete interest in talking to them and trying to set up further meetups. they lose priority. the result being they grow cold and the enthusiasm dies.some of them become outright bltches to you. im not gonna wait around for 3-5 dates with a 6 for sex when theres party girl 7+ out there that only need to get drunk and a backseat to give it up

like you said, if you dont feel right being at her house, or she legit sets things up for sex NOT to happen, then dont try to escalate there. but in reality, like espi said, you should be on AUTOPILOT by that point.

you are man she is woman. penis in vagina

This. I was just thinking on my drive home today from work of how women don't usually start responding until I've lost interest. The problem is that I legit lost interest. It's not exciting anymore. Take that a bit further and if I do **** her at that point, the sex sucks. I fear it's going to be the same with this one.

 

[Billtx49]

This. I was just thinking on my drive home today from work of how women don't usually start responding until I've lost interest. The problem is that I legit lost interest. It's not exciting anymore. Take that a bit further and if I do **** her at that point, the sex sucks. I fear it's going to be the same with this one.

Yep, it takes some interest and effort put out to get laid these days…

 

[Vantagepoint34]

That's what I thought, but this chic is falling asleep on the man. @jaymbrs are investing anything financially in this chic? Is she spilling all her chit onto you?

Falling asleep? Still looks like step one to getting somewhere... Recommend the search to look up some of DJ fingz(or senior fingz) stuff where he's watching movies with the girl. Trust me not chit Haha.

 

[Billtx49]

Falling asleep? Still looks like step one to getting somewhere.

Yep, almost zero sexual escalation there. Probably only received by her as petting and cuddling. Combine that with no isolation and you’re not even close to first base IMHO…

 

[jaymbrs]

Yep, almost zero sexual escalation there. Probably only received by her as petting and cuddling. Combine that with no isolation and you’re not even close to first base IMHO…

I’m not denying that. I have admitted to not doing anything but just sit there waiting for the roommate to take off. The drinking and video watching made me lose track of time. By 2-2:30 we were both pretty drunk and tired. It was a bad situation. If I could go back I would’ve given her more attention and been a little more flirtatious. Hopefully this is a learning lesson for more than just me.