Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Haha nothing wrong YouTube videos. You start with the funny ones and switch over to some songs. Next thing you know they are dancing around to this.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Lol
I honestly just need to get her back to my place. I don't have roommates so I won't have that problem. Problem is I already tried getting her back to my place on another date and she claims to have a DWI so she doesn't like the idea of drinking and driving nor did she want to stay over. She'd rather go to her place.
She doesn’t want sex then unless she will come to your place or no room mate present at hers…
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Nothing happened that night that even hinted at a possibility for a threesome. The roommate just came off as a loser third wheel.
To reiterate you have to use your shyness as an advantage. Remember follow up with netfix meeting. Just take hints that they want to be your friend. It can happen and play out like that. Then it will come out two years later you can find out what happened and all of a sudden you may have some kind of girlfriend. You can never underestimate the power of planting seeds. I've had girls super shy like the Tennis girl come back one year later when my seed grew and all of sudden was ripe for the picking. She broke into my house. And things escalated from there. Believe you do have something... Oh and thanks for the tips on the euro girl. I recently texted her and could have a meeting soon.
Like the crossed her ****ing legs thing, then resting them on yours? And she's dozing off while you're doing this?
That's what I thought, but this chic is falling asleep on the man. @jaymbrs are investing anything financially in this chic? Is she spilling all her chit onto you?
Man some of y'all have some weird advice, I find woman are waaay more relaxed when they are in their own home.
yea That leg thing. I’m over here grabbing this broads legs and she doesn’t flinch. And no I’m not spending any significant amount of money on this girl. I got her a drink or 2 but she def like to pay for her own stuff. Even got me a drink.
Yea me too. Which is why I wasn’t opposed to going there. Just means I have less work to do with relaxing her.Man some of y'all have some weird advice, I find woman are waaay more relaxed when they are in their own home.
Hmm... Chics are in it for one of three things, or a combination. Financial, sexual or emotional gratification. If you can't get a handle on it by her actions, then I would consider laying it all out on the table. She knows what's up. Your feeling her thighs up. Have you kissed her and is that the extent you've went feeling her up? Personally, I would go for the gusto, but idc about blowing them out of the water either. I would make my intentions very clear. If she's down for the cause, then she's going to roll with it. I wouldn't use the excuse of her roomy being around either. If you're worried about how she think she might be perceived by the roomy, slip some kino in when she's not looking. Kisses on the neck, ass grabs etc.
I was definitely thinking that’s what I might need to do. We’ve messed around before and grabbed her ass while doing so. I could possibly be overthinking this. But def wanted to know what everyone else thought.
True. You said it hadn't been that long.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This. I was just thinking on my drive home today from work of how women don't usually start responding until I've lost interest. The problem is that I legit lost interest. It's not exciting anymore. Take that a bit further and if I do **** her at that point, the sex sucks. I fear it's going to be the same with this one.
Yep, it takes some interest and effort put out to get laid these days…
Falling asleep? Still looks like step one to getting somewhere... Recommend the search to look up some of DJ fingz(or senior fingz) stuff where he's watching movies with the girl. Trust me not chit Haha.
Yep, almost zero sexual escalation there. Probably only received by her as petting and cuddling. Combine that with no isolation and you’re not even close to first base IMHO…
I’m not denying that. I have admitted to not doing anything but just sit there waiting for the roommate to take off. The drinking and video watching made me lose track of time. By 2-2:30 we were both pretty drunk and tired. It was a bad situation. If I could go back I would’ve given her more attention and been a little more flirtatious. Hopefully this is a learning lesson for more than just me.
