"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When are your summer holidays?

NorwegianDJ

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When does it begin and when does it end? All of you, especially if you intend to participate in a bootcamp during this time.

Mine starts on the 13th of June, as that's when I'll be on the plane to Norway, and ends roughly the 3rd of August, when I'll be going back.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mine starts around 23rd July and ends around 3rd September, but a week of that is away and practically the whole month of July is a holiday for me despite having school.

But yeah im well up for doing whatever, my last exam is in mid June and life's pretty quiet atm.
 
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Mine starts June 23rd!
I'm so down for another bootcamp, and I'll have plenty of time and no excuses to give, so I'm in for sure.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mine started a week ago, and end in early august

I'm down for a bootcamp as well
 

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Mine started today, and ends august 8th, and since I can't get around with out my parents or brother driving me, I won't be doing the bootcamp.
 

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Dreamin'_Dylan said:
Mine started today, and ends august 8th, and since I can't get around with out my parents or brother driving me, I won't be doing the bootcamp.
Sounds like the situation for most of us. What makes it different for you? I'm sure you can go with them and also walk places or public transport.
 

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My entire life is just a giant vacation from boredom. I just got hired to be a white water rafting guide, paintball judge, and a summer researcher for a Pennsylvania University. As far as I am concerned, THAT is a vacation! \

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yeah lets get this started asap im sitting on my arse playing ps3 all day
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
Sounds like the situation for most of us. What makes it different for you? I'm sure you can go with them and also walk places or public transport.
Well to start, being in public with my family is like being in public wearing sh1t stained white pants. In short, embarising. And the town I live in is small, but to get into the actual I have to walk 6 miles down a fvcking highway. Then another 6 to get home. And there is no public transportation.
 

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Dreamin'_Dylan said:
Well to start, being in public with my family is like being in public wearing sh1t stained white pants. In short, embarising. And the town I live in is small, but to get into the actual I have to walk 6 miles down a fvcking highway. Then another 6 to get home. And there is no public transportation.
Get a bike or go with a friend. Make solutions. The whole point of this bootcamp is to overcome anxious, scary, and embarresing situations.
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
Get a bike or go with a friend. Make solutions. The whole point of this bootcamp is to overcome anxious, scary, and embarresing situations.
I agree,I also live like 10km's out of town.I always make solutions.No excuses my friend.
 

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Mine just started wednesday. And I'd be totally down for a bootcamp
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jack Wealthy said:
I have lived in a small town before. I did part of the boot camp there last time. It wasn't ideal but then what is.
Im gonna do the whole bootcamp in a small town, living on an island over 10k's from town. It's gonna be the greatest! I think it's way better than doing it in Cape Town.
 
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