"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When Approaching...

defiancy

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When approaching..wouldn't you likely to increase your chances with the girl you're approaching if you demonstrate value to her earlier?

If you don't demonstrate some value isn't it more likely that she won't be receptive when you approach?

Anyways, how can a girl be receptive if she doesn't know you that well an didn't see much of your value?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dukester

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that's why IMO, and when I game, i only approach chicks who i've had EC w/ b4.

i mean, i can do cold approaches pretty decent, but I like to establish EC 1st. makes things a lil bit easier
 

Desdinova

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Social proof is an excellent way to demonstrate value to women around you. If you don't have social proof, you have to demonstrate value in the few minutes you talk to her after you approach her.
 
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