When and how to advance

[Nick1886]

I'll keep this one simple:

What sort of timescale is standard for relationships? I.e. time together/dates, moving from sweet texts to first base to second onwards. Also what are the best ways to advance your relationship? Is it better to splash out on bigger dates at first or later on? Thanks

 

[Eternal_water]

There are those here who will say you should be in her by the end of the first night.

This will be an interesting thread to follow

 

[Night-hawk]

I stray from labeling anything in relationships anymore. I go in with a zen, **** it, mindset. The term relationship, or gf or bf and all the sillyness that surrounds it has become comedic to me.

How is your question simple?

Best way to advance you and another girl's love bubble is to fill her mind of you to where she becomes like 'the girl in the bubble' and is afraid to leave for risk of contamination of the world without your bubble.

Just careful you don't catch what she has.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I dont think theres a rule for such things, but as long as you are progressing through dates that it as a good sign.

The biggest red flag I found in my experience are the girls who suck your time and energy but dont allow you to escalate pshysically, you should be able to get a kiss or a make-out session at the end of first date as long as you spent enough time toghter and her interest level is high.

At the second date making out would be common even during the date and so on, girls who withdraw what they granted or stop your progression should alert your bvllsh1t detector.

If they withdraw intimacy, you withdraw time and effort.