when and how does it happen...

[CapedCrusader08]

that that change happens or is supposed to happen. Call be when you go from a boy to a man, or dud to a stud,or any other cliche etc. I mean, I have made some changes, but I still feel miles behind.

 

[SharinganUser]

Change is gradual. Unless you have a barmitzvah, or are part of an African tribe that requires you to kill a tiger for your right of passage, there really isn't one defining moment.

btw how many ethnic groups did I just accidentally offend??

 

[Night Owl]

If you are still thinking about it your not a real man just yet. It takes time, lots of mistakes and gaining a lot of wisdom and confidence too. It's like learning to walk - you get knocked down, but you get back up again.

Just don't hang around here too long - pick up tips, but get out in the real world too/

 

[HBK]

The way you learn is by playing the game, sometimes you win or lose. But picking yourself up after defeat, and knowing you wont make the same mistake again is the lesson. It takes time, but you WILL get there.

 

[Crazy Asian]

that that change happens or is supposed to happen. Call be when you go from a boy to a man, or dud to a stud,or any other cliche etc. I mean, I have made some changes, but I still feel miles behind.

the change is gradual, but you get there before you know it.