"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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when and how does it happen...

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that that change happens or is supposed to happen. Call be when you go from a boy to a man, or dud to a stud,or any other cliche etc. I mean, I have made some changes, but I still feel miles behind.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SharinganUser

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Change is gradual. Unless you have a barmitzvah, or are part of an African tribe that requires you to kill a tiger for your right of passage, there really isn't one defining moment.

btw how many ethnic groups did I just accidentally offend??
 

Night Owl

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If you are still thinking about it your not a real man just yet. It takes time, lots of mistakes and gaining a lot of wisdom and confidence too. It's like learning to walk - you get knocked down, but you get back up again.

Just don't hang around here too long - pick up tips, but get out in the real world too/
 

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The way you learn is by playing the game, sometimes you win or lose. But picking yourself up after defeat, and knowing you wont make the same mistake again is the lesson. It takes time, but you WILL get there.
 

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CapedCrusader08 said:
that that change happens or is supposed to happen. Call be when you go from a boy to a man, or dud to a stud,or any other cliche etc. I mean, I have made some changes, but I still feel miles behind.
the change is gradual, but you get there before you know it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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