"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When an online chick demands a first date dinner...

Bingo-Player

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I got ya

Listen I'm a cheap bastard I don't like spending money on women I use to track it and i found women I took on dates I never saw again....

SO I always try to do the "Netflix N chill" or as I call it "Cooking and Netflix" you buy stouffers for $10 pop a movie BOOM same thing

it's cheap and effective the problem is a lot of girls are waaaaaaaaaaaay to hip to that game now, thanks to tinder/online dating etc
yea i agree hence why i dont date anymore , problem is girls outside of a social circle wont go for netflix n chill or cooking n chill or anything n chill

their wise to it , they know they will end up giving it up for next to nothing and that wont bode well for gossip with the "gals"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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zinc4

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My Netflix and chill game here is improving. It was on fire in Taiwan... Started to improve here...these girls here require more negging and ******* behavior. Told one shes going to look like a triceratops in the future if she doesnt start working out much.

Added a shirtless selfie and have seen an increase in hos who are down to chill.
 
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