"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Everything was going smoothly, everything was going great in every aspect of my life. Then, suddenly I develop oneitis for a girl who used to be practically throwing herself at me. Used to being the key word. Now she seems to be pulling away, I guess we're "just friends" now.

I want to get rid of the ****ing oneitis but it's really overtaken me, like it used to back in the day. I can't focus or do anything at all anymore. How the hell do I get rid of it? I know for a fact that I blew this chick off when she was interested and now she's likely to be over it and moving on, so how can I move on? How do you speed up that process?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well how did u do it before?

get more women.. go fuk 1000 different chicks, go meet other chicks..

get some cofidence up man.. the only true way to speed it up is do get urself busy at other things and leave her alone. let her talk to u

just back up meet other girls
 
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You just gotta keep workingat it.
 
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