A few days ago I had an interview with a recruiter for a potential job and this woman was cute, i'd say 7.5 on the grid but has potential. During the interview I made a few clever comments and I could tell she was into me. I left and a couple days later she reached out to me about the job, she sounded stress so I got her out of her headiness and into my frame by inviting her out for a drink. She agreed.
Last night we got together and this woman was nervous, heck I saw a mirror image of what I was like when I first burst into the dating scene. I thought it was cute so I made her laugh and smile while staying in my center. I invited her back over to my place to share a bottle of wine, she agreed and then we hooked up. Before we made our way to the bedroom she insisted that she should leave cause she "knows whats going to happen" and she "can't control herself" around me, so I played it cool by saying, if you're not ready it's cool, we can chill or you can leave. So we "chilled" and she started to get jumpy, I could tell she wanted me. We made out, a little bit of foreplay and BOOM right before we started to go she LMR (Last minute resistance).
She decided to give me the ultimatum, 1.) We do it but never see each other again or 2.) We don't do it and i'll see her again. Think about that for a second guys.. she tried setting up her own frame and test me for neediness. I couldn't help but laugh and I replied "Hmm.. I think we both know what you want, how bad do you want to see me again? (As I am teasing her), she couldn't help but go with it and it happened.
Sure she might pull the vanish card on me because of her insecurities but ultimately gentlemen you NEVER go into her frame especially when a woman tries to trade it for sex.
Last night we got together and this woman was nervous, heck I saw a mirror image of what I was like when I first burst into the dating scene. I thought it was cute so I made her laugh and smile while staying in my center. I invited her back over to my place to share a bottle of wine, she agreed and then we hooked up. Before we made our way to the bedroom she insisted that she should leave cause she "knows whats going to happen" and she "can't control herself" around me, so I played it cool by saying, if you're not ready it's cool, we can chill or you can leave. So we "chilled" and she started to get jumpy, I could tell she wanted me. We made out, a little bit of foreplay and BOOM right before we started to go she LMR (Last minute resistance).
She decided to give me the ultimatum, 1.) We do it but never see each other again or 2.) We don't do it and i'll see her again. Think about that for a second guys.. she tried setting up her own frame and test me for neediness. I couldn't help but laugh and I replied "Hmm.. I think we both know what you want, how bad do you want to see me again? (As I am teasing her), she couldn't help but go with it and it happened.
Sure she might pull the vanish card on me because of her insecurities but ultimately gentlemen you NEVER go into her frame especially when a woman tries to trade it for sex.
