Do you think that anger is a sign of passion, can a woman truly hate a man that she doesn't feel something for?
I went for a number close on a girl I've known for awhile, who a long time ago asked me out but I kind of turned her down (lame on my part). Since then she has been playing hard to get but always giving me the signals to pursue, which I haven't really done much with. Ultimately, she has tried to get me to break out of my aloof shell, show direct interest in her, and I figured, if I don't make a move I'm going to lose this one. Which I'm sure was a mistake. But I was feeling the pressure on her part.
Anyway, when I went for the number she said she was too busy to date, but I just decided to push it anyway. After every excuse of how busy she was I just replied with "I want your phone number". I did this about three times. Finally she asked what I would do with it, and I said "call it." Then more excuses with how busy she was.
So finally I said in a matter of fact, teasing way "you're so hard headed". She got pissed and walked off.
I disappeared for a week or so and the next time I saw her she acted like she wanted to stab me in the chest. Silent treatment, being disrespectful, hardcore flirting with other guys, every guy around, kept looking over at me to make sure I could see her making me jealous, just daggers of hate in her eyes. She was on fire. She's done the jealousy thing like that before but this time she was just PISSED.
I didn't say anything, didn't try to reason with her, after I figured she's just not going to be friendly I left the scene. It's been a few weeks, I already know she has my contact info so I guess I'm just moving on.
I am ASSUMING that what I was supposed to do was to beg her to talk to me, maybe to qualify myself to her. Is this is what most guys do? Freak out and try to make the girl forgive him? I can't do that, and I would like to see her again but she was being such a bytch I can't bring myself to go see her again.
So back to my question, can a girl be truly furious at a man if she has no feelings for him?
I went for a number close on a girl I've known for awhile, who a long time ago asked me out but I kind of turned her down (lame on my part). Since then she has been playing hard to get but always giving me the signals to pursue, which I haven't really done much with. Ultimately, she has tried to get me to break out of my aloof shell, show direct interest in her, and I figured, if I don't make a move I'm going to lose this one. Which I'm sure was a mistake. But I was feeling the pressure on her part.
Anyway, when I went for the number she said she was too busy to date, but I just decided to push it anyway. After every excuse of how busy she was I just replied with "I want your phone number". I did this about three times. Finally she asked what I would do with it, and I said "call it." Then more excuses with how busy she was.
So finally I said in a matter of fact, teasing way "you're so hard headed". She got pissed and walked off.
I disappeared for a week or so and the next time I saw her she acted like she wanted to stab me in the chest. Silent treatment, being disrespectful, hardcore flirting with other guys, every guy around, kept looking over at me to make sure I could see her making me jealous, just daggers of hate in her eyes. She was on fire. She's done the jealousy thing like that before but this time she was just PISSED.
I didn't say anything, didn't try to reason with her, after I figured she's just not going to be friendly I left the scene. It's been a few weeks, I already know she has my contact info so I guess I'm just moving on.
I am ASSUMING that what I was supposed to do was to beg her to talk to me, maybe to qualify myself to her. Is this is what most guys do? Freak out and try to make the girl forgive him? I can't do that, and I would like to see her again but she was being such a bytch I can't bring myself to go see her again.
So back to my question, can a girl be truly furious at a man if she has no feelings for him?
