"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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when a woman checks up on you

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Don Juan
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as some of you may know i recently had an ex walk out on me and so after about 2 weeks i stopped trying to contact her (ganji games, etc). i suspected her and her friend were checking up on my AIM away messages so i put a spylink (www.imchaos.com) in my profile and come to find out they have been checking up on me...

my questions is, and this doesnt necesarily have to be regarding my specific situation: when a woman checks up on you does it 'mean anything'?

is she just curious how you are doing? what you are doing?

does this behavior assume that there is at least some level of interest?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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