"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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warrior1

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dude? This is even worst than her saying you're like a brother to me right?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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seagull

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There's no set law for how the word "dude" is used.
 

penkitten

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dude! don't take it so hard dude. wait, you are a dude right?
 

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Dude, it's a word. I'm frightened you actually created a thread b/c of it. Chill! ;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lebRambo

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warrior1 said:
dude? This is even worst than her saying you're like a brother to me right?
are you serious? Come on man, stop over analyzing everything. Just live in the moment and don't go home after chatting to a chick and psyche yourself out of stuff just because of some trifling little thing. Calm down and enjoy, man! :)
 

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If a women calls you 'dude' what she means is 'dud'. Women are use to dealing with things the long way around and hence tend to use long forms contrary to men who keep it short and simple and use short forms.

That should take care your mind for a couple of days.. :rolleyes:

hold it melon, just kiddin. :wave:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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warrior1

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definitely don't want a woman calling me cute intead of hot. Are there any woman that might call their guy friend dude that she finds attractive or is there not a chance.

I find that if a woman calls you dude your just a friend or their a bit tomboyish?
 

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No need to take offense if a girl calls you dude...

It shows she is

a) comfortable around you
b) in touch with her masculine side

I read somewhere that girls calling guys "dude" is the equalivant of guys calling girls "babe" , not sure how accurate that statement is...but go with it.

Ive been called "dude" several times by girls and I think its more because they are comfortable talking to me...

I would , however, in your case and in general rather have the girl say "hey babe" or "hey sexy" . I get that alot , but sometimes a girl may say "dude" try not to over analyze it... rather analyze the other things about her ,

Her interest level for starters?
 

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I live in California...I call everybody "Dude". No insult intended or taken. Sounds better than "Hey YOU!"
 

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a) comfortable around you
agreed, I call my guy friends dude

b) in touch with her masculine side
lol..um, I guess.. I mean my guy friends treat me like how they would treat their male friends..

honestly you "might" be reading to much into it, some girls use the word "dude" out of habit.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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