"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When a woman asks "So what do you do?"

Harry Wilmington

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I have found that a woman's line of questioning usually follows the lead of what the guy is presenting. Therefore: the woman will typically be more apt to ask that type of question if the guy is the one asking her the question first.

Not even lying: once I knew to stop asking this question to them (so that I wouldn't have to answer it back), I found that none of the girls I'd take on first dates would ask me. In fact, sometimes it wouldn't be until after I took them out a few times and/or slept with them that they'd realize they had no idea what I actually did as a "job!"

Bottom line: the easiest way to answer the question... is to avoid having it come up as a topic in the first place by not presenting it out there. Again, she's following YOUR lead, guys - if you don't start out by asking HER boring questions, she usually won't ask them to you either.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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