"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When a guy tries to steal my girl

Blatant truth

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Originally posted by Straydog
I didn't ask if I should break up with her Fool. Why don't you read the post before posting
Don't get mad because I'm right. You ask for advice on a message board, be prepared to be scrutinized. If you can't deal with that, stfu.

Good luck with your long distance, hardly see my girl and she's always with another guy relationship.

Now just in case your IQ is higher in the last week or so, let me say it again.


doomed to failure because you won't be able to keep her interest level up.

Got that? Now go read the DJB, go out and meet some girls who actually live near you.

Cheers!

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr. Cardio

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Hey, I say keep her on the side, keep seeing her twice a month, but while shes gone, get you another girl, and another one, and one more. In my opinion, you seem like the relationship type of guy, instead of the fvck her tonight leave in the morning guy. So just gets you two more or one more of her, that way, in the end, you dont get screwed.
 

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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
I just love it when the girl tells you she has a bf right from the beginning.... saves me a lot of wasted effort, saves her any trouble, what a great way for a woman to behave.
Never happened to me, but female friends of mine are always telling dudes they have bfs when they don't.

Lieing c unts.
 

pimpfromdayone

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Originally posted by mrRuckus
Never happened to me, but female friends of mine are always telling dudes they have bfs when they don't.

Lieing c unts.
Good point, but to me either way it doesn't matter.... whether she has one or is just not interested, it saves me from wasting effort on that ho. I'm not saying it happens a lot (that would be bad of course for me) but I have been in situations involving attention who-res who don't bother to tell me they are dating someone until I have already wasted time on them. It seems like in college, every girl is single, much different than in hs where they all had bfs. I think it is so they can be as slut-ty as possible.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Climax

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my 2c...

Straydog: When it comes to LDR, I think that the best option is to have an OPEN relationship with her... so when u are WITH her, then u are together as bf & gf, and when u are NOT together, then u can be single. ... Think about it, u live life once, do you really want to only embrace one of the most beautiful things (love) on a very rare basis? ... You need to find someone closer to you, and keep her as a f*ck buddy.

But its your call, if you are willing to put up with all the difficulties and challenge that face u in a LDR, then best of luck man.


Laterz...
 
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