Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When a guy tries to steal my girl

Blatant truth

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Originally posted by Straydog
I didn't ask if I should break up with her Fool. Why don't you read the post before posting
Don't get mad because I'm right. You ask for advice on a message board, be prepared to be scrutinized. If you can't deal with that, stfu.

Good luck with your long distance, hardly see my girl and she's always with another guy relationship.

Now just in case your IQ is higher in the last week or so, let me say it again.


doomed to failure because you won't be able to keep her interest level up.

Got that? Now go read the DJB, go out and meet some girls who actually live near you.

Cheers!

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mr. Cardio

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Hey, I say keep her on the side, keep seeing her twice a month, but while shes gone, get you another girl, and another one, and one more. In my opinion, you seem like the relationship type of guy, instead of the fvck her tonight leave in the morning guy. So just gets you two more or one more of her, that way, in the end, you dont get screwed.
 

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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
I just love it when the girl tells you she has a bf right from the beginning.... saves me a lot of wasted effort, saves her any trouble, what a great way for a woman to behave.
Never happened to me, but female friends of mine are always telling dudes they have bfs when they don't.

Lieing c unts.
 

pimpfromdayone

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Originally posted by mrRuckus
Never happened to me, but female friends of mine are always telling dudes they have bfs when they don't.

Lieing c unts.
Good point, but to me either way it doesn't matter.... whether she has one or is just not interested, it saves me from wasting effort on that ho. I'm not saying it happens a lot (that would be bad of course for me) but I have been in situations involving attention who-res who don't bother to tell me they are dating someone until I have already wasted time on them. It seems like in college, every girl is single, much different than in hs where they all had bfs. I think it is so they can be as slut-ty as possible.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Climax

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my 2c...

Straydog: When it comes to LDR, I think that the best option is to have an OPEN relationship with her... so when u are WITH her, then u are together as bf & gf, and when u are NOT together, then u can be single. ... Think about it, u live life once, do you really want to only embrace one of the most beautiful things (love) on a very rare basis? ... You need to find someone closer to you, and keep her as a f*ck buddy.

But its your call, if you are willing to put up with all the difficulties and challenge that face u in a LDR, then best of luck man.


Laterz...
 
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