"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When a girl uses ****y and funny

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Took a girl on a date Saturday, texted her tonight saying "Hey, whatever happened to calling me 20 times a day, the weather is hot lets have a picnic this week"

She replied

"Hey mmm don't want to spoil you so no calls :p and as for the picnic, we'll see if you deserve it :p"

OK I know she is flirting but she's also avoiding the issue so im not sure how to come back without seeming pushy and asking again.

Really it is not just the text. She is ****y and funny all the time and while i can usually come back with something just as good sometimes i get tonguetied and she gets the upperhand. She also uses it even when im being sincere or saying something complimentary.

Im also not sure if she's just a flirt and therefore deliberately not giving a straight answer about the picnic, or is interested but playing hard to get.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thats a girl being a girl, you know you could laugh you did get owned.
 
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Yeah. You don't ALWAYS have to win at C&F! If you are light harted about it, and not be a ******* and trying to always win at little games (That shows you give those games a lot of value too!) you're gonna do better. DON'T SCREW THE VIBE BY TRYING TO SHOW HIGHER VALUE!!

The point it, you're a DJ: You obviously don't give a damn about anything, nothing hurts you! So no worries champ.

A cool reply I used one was: Wow, good comeback for once! ;) *Took the girls and hugged her, then let go*. She had a smile on for the next 2 minutes. Yeah, you can be a "AFC" sometimes. (Haha, does AFC still mean nice?:crackup: )

A good one for your case could be something like: With comebacks like that, you're asking for trobule little missy! :D or "Wow, you're being mean! I think I'm gonna have to put you in place... Lets go xzy at xzy, show up if you dare!"

i hope you get the idea.
 
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