"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When a girl uses ****y and funny

viking22

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Took a girl on a date Saturday, texted her tonight saying "Hey, whatever happened to calling me 20 times a day, the weather is hot lets have a picnic this week"

She replied

"Hey mmm don't want to spoil you so no calls :p and as for the picnic, we'll see if you deserve it :p"

OK I know she is flirting but she's also avoiding the issue so im not sure how to come back without seeming pushy and asking again.

Really it is not just the text. She is ****y and funny all the time and while i can usually come back with something just as good sometimes i get tonguetied and she gets the upperhand. She also uses it even when im being sincere or saying something complimentary.

Im also not sure if she's just a flirt and therefore deliberately not giving a straight answer about the picnic, or is interested but playing hard to get.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thats a girl being a girl, you know you could laugh you did get owned.
 

Groovy

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Yeah. You don't ALWAYS have to win at C&F! If you are light harted about it, and not be a ******* and trying to always win at little games (That shows you give those games a lot of value too!) you're gonna do better. DON'T SCREW THE VIBE BY TRYING TO SHOW HIGHER VALUE!!

The point it, you're a DJ: You obviously don't give a damn about anything, nothing hurts you! So no worries champ.

A cool reply I used one was: Wow, good comeback for once! ;) *Took the girls and hugged her, then let go*. She had a smile on for the next 2 minutes. Yeah, you can be a "AFC" sometimes. (Haha, does AFC still mean nice?:crackup: )

A good one for your case could be something like: With comebacks like that, you're asking for trobule little missy! :D or "Wow, you're being mean! I think I'm gonna have to put you in place... Lets go xzy at xzy, show up if you dare!"

i hope you get the idea.
 
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