Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
)She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Jair213 said:me, not close till i say it is ;D
hb, Wrong!!!... I have the last say. I thought u knew. Ha!!..
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ussualy on stuuff like this do u guys come off as witty?
can yall give me examples
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thanks.wataf said:Well its hard to say without knowing how you met her, how many times you've hung out, if youve ****ed, and how you usually talk to her in real life you can't magically try to act ****y and funny in text if youre a dweeb in real life but heres a couple lines that may help
If shes blonde i'd drop a line like "You blondes always think you know everything!"
Or drop a classic line i used to use in my pof days but transferred into real life texting and pick up "You scorpios (or whatever sign she is) are always trouble
Some people don't like the winks or ! in text but its always worked for me
Lmao brah!Jair213 said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
He's probably just practicing his approaches. Something wrong with that?omega05 said: