when a girl talks about another guy to you.

[Deadly_Assassin]

my second question just came into my mind


This happened a very long time ago.
Okay I am studying at a flying school at the moment, things are going really great, getting a lot of flying hours done and the theory is going good too. But last year when I was in waste time and money on parties and alcohol mode, I was hardly getting any flying done. I mean maybe once in 2-3mnths, everyone thought I had quit my flying. Then this one chick ( yes the asian one from church) was telling me how she went up flying with some other guy( she knows I am doing the same thing ). I was like yea ok, just pretended that I couldnt care less. Then she made a comment saying that this guy is really hard out into his flying and stuff. Was she trying to hint me something?

Another time we were watching this guy do some building work at our church. He was one of the guys from church, hes 35 and married. I said told her how I never had the patience to hammer a nail in straight at high school. She said to me that building is a man's job and not a panzy dude like you (she said this in a joking way but didnt matter to me). I was pretty pissed off at that cos that is disrespectful but i didnt show it to her.

 

[rgeere]

This whole thread reaks on over-analysis, nothing is definatelly coming out of this one ...

But, to answer the question the answer is no. Don't let girls talk about other guys to you, especially if they are in a whiney mood and feel down. No way in hell should you ever put yourself in a position to be a girl's 'emotional tampon.'

 

[ScrewIt]

hmm i dunno...sounds like she might interested in you and trying to get you jealous?

i had a good female friend from junior high. down the line in high school she confessed to me that she used to like a guy in one of my classes. i had no clue nor care less if she did, i just said "ok".

maybe she had an alternate agenda such as getting me jealous, maybe she liked me i dunno. all i know is that i havent spoken to her in 4 years and we dont keep in contact anymore.

 

[rgeere]

Actually screwit brought up a good point, and that could be a possibility. That would explain why she was neghitting you atleast.

Generally when a girl talk to you about other guys it is not a good thing and she is trying to distance herself from you. I suppose that it is possible that a girl would have it in her mind to talk about other guys to try to get you closer to her, but I wouldn't get my hopes up beyond the appropiate context of the situation. It's all realitive.

 

[ScrewIt]

Originally posted by Deadly_Assassin

Another time we were watching this guy do some building work at our church. He was one of the guys from church, hes 35 and married. I said told her how I never had the patience to hammer a nail in straight at high school. She said to me that building is a man's job and not a panzy dude like you (she said this in a joking way but didnt matter to me). I was pretty pissed off at that cos that is disrespectful but i didnt show it to her.

Actually after reading rgeere's post and reanalyzing this part of your context i realized something.

what just happened here is that she is comparing you to other men. A subconscious act to get you pissed and show/tell her what talents you are capable of.... She's attempting mind manipulation and setting her "standards" in what she wants in a guy, yet letting you know indirectly. don't succumb to it, let the hoe talk what she wants.

if this was your gf and she did that, you could call her on it...but since you barely know each other, it's a different situation.

Of course, when **** like this happens it's a good chance she likes you.

 

[MacDiddy]

I said told her how I never had the patience to hammer a nail in straight at high school.

You put yourself in a negative light when u said that... a DLV (display of low value) It gave her an opportunity to bust your balls...

Its a nasty habit which you have to break...

You could have recovered if you said "careful woman, this panzy dude is gonna kick you in the assz!!! said in a sure confident manner..

 

[Jack McCrack]

A girl did that to me.

I offered to get the guy's number.

She said she didn't want it.

 

[ScrewIt]

to sum up what i said, simply put this is a test. to see how you react.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

yea i should have know better by not saying something negative like dat, but i just ended up ignoring what she had to say to me back then and yes i gotta stop over analysing the situation, especially little things she does.

cheers guys

 

[HHloser2]

Originally posted by Jack McCrack
A girl did that to me.

I offered to get the guy's number.

She said she didn't want it.

lol gj is not taking her BS.

 

[Freeman]

my 2cents

Well deadly assassin I will just tell you this much: If a female is talking to me about how some other guy is I wouldn't even give her a second thought unless she's flirting with me heavy-THEN I might give her some slack-But other than that I would definitley not even waste my time. The next she comes up to you bragging about some other guy just laugh at her face and walk away from her-She'll be dumbfounded!

Aight! Don't sweat that chick man...