Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When a girl takes a bit to get back to you

Groverz

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If you text a girl say at like 10pm, and you are pretty sure she read it because you could see her get in FB using her phone, but then does not respond until the next day, a few hours after they are up and already at work.

Was just a simple hey, hows things?

Why do they wait so long?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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denverfan110

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Depends. If she's highly interested she's playing NC on purpose to keep you interested. If thats the case its working as you're posting this thread. I have a girl thats doing it to me now and it's working. Completely different in person we vibe really well and everything is 100% smooth but via text and fb chat she makes it a point to keep me hanging before respoding. But we've already fcked so idk if this applies to you.

On the other end of the spectrum she could simply have really low interest and not give enough fcks to respond until when she feels like it.

Would need more info to diagnose which one is correct.
 

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Probably because it was 10pm, she was going to work the next day and didn't feel like starting up a conversation.
 
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