When A Girl Says Your Not Her Type

[Young Stallion]

This sugar coated rejection to me is translated to "Your Not Good Looking Enough For Me".

Would you say this is a fair statement?

 

[JPlaya]

I wouldn't limit it to just good looking

 

[betheman]

it just means that to her, you arent attractive, thats not neccessarily about looks either

 

[SharinganUser]

It doesn't really mean anything. A lot of it depends on context. Some women have told me this straight up as a rejection, and others have told me this in bed.

Either way don't let it bother you and continue being awesome.

 

[nismo-4]

In bed, it's meaningless.

Outside of it, it means you are not attractive, whether it be physically or financially.

OP, you said it's a sugar coated rejection. Exactly what it says on the tin.

Case dismissed.

 

[djokovic77]

it's not just about looks.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

it's not just about looks.

Either it is about looks, or you're acting like a complete AFC. No other reason a girl will pass you up and feed that lame line. So I agree with you. But it usually is a politically correct way of saying you're not attractive.

 

[SoldMySoul]

All posters are correct for the most part. OP, ask yourself this: If you told a woman she was NOT your type, why would you? There lies the answer you seek. Same reason as you would tell one this. Hate to admit, but women and men are alike on this subject matter.

You could just lay it out there and say, "Bytch, you are too ugly...or your a fat a$$..or your breasts are too small for my liking....or YOU want an ATM and I that is not on my forehead." But you say NOT my type to get them off of you.
Nismo said something about being told this in bed... Hmm, not sure where he was going with it. But let's say you hit it and knew you did NOT handle your business, it could be a hardcore slap in the face meaning you were a lousy lay.Who knows? Two views: at least you hit (yay, good for you) or (you were extremely weak in the sex act.) bad for you.

Don't over think this one...pretty cut an dry. No attraction=move the fvck on. I do not believe you can increase the chemistry of attraction much. Some may argue, but my experience says no. I know immediately within 5 minutes of meeting a prospect if I feel her or Not! And you BEST BELIEVE she does too!!! It has always been said and I agree 150%, a woman knows within minutes if she would sleep with you after meeting you. I am the same way!! I know very soon as I size her up. Face, hair, eyes, breasts, her overall shape, I imagine what she would look like unclothed. My size up never fails me. If I have to keep looking for qualities I start re thinking would I be with her. Then you have some, they do not have to be dime pieces, but they just do it for ya. You find many attractive qualities in them, hence attraction...Then YOU would not tell her she is NOT your type. Make sense? I think it does.

 

[djokovic77]

Either it is about looks, or you're acting like a complete AFC. No other reason a girl will pass you up and feed that lame line. So I agree with you. But it usually is a politically correct way of saying you're not attractive.

True, I think it's AFC more often than we think though. I think it's a case of one of those syllogisms... all humans are primates, but not all primates are humans. Every time you're not attractive enough, she'll say 'you're not my type' but it doesn't mean every time she says 'you're not my type' it's because you're not hot enough.

 

[d!ckmojo]

Not necessarily imo. What if she only likes super-dope bad boy drug dealers covered in tattoos and bling? You could be a very good looking guy, but sort of boyish and clean cut, and she might say that to you.

 

[Mike32ct]

Not necessarily imo. What if she only likes super-dope bad boy drug dealers covered in tattoos and bling? You could be a very good looking guy, but sort of boyish and clean cut, and she might say that to you.

^This.

 

[yuppaz]

Ya, It can be either or. It can be a personality type she isn't into (sometimes people are very specific about those things), it can be a pc way to say that you suck in bed, or that she doesn't find you attractive too. Most important thing is the subtext of the situation when it comes up. Is it when you first approach a club rat and she is all tatted up & you aren't like that? Is she bored, but on a date with you (could be your personalities don't mesh). It doesn't mean you can't still hook up with them but it's important to figure out why you think that came up in THAT SPECIFIC SITUATION, and either learn from it (if warranted) or forget it (if it's a chemistry thing, or just that you two don't click personality wise) and keep in mind that you should also be developing a type that you like (specific qualities in a girls looks, personality, lifestyle etc.). The more specific that you can be the more selective or the right ones for you and the more success you will have in dating.

 

[Hotsauce]

"You're not either"
*Smile*
"Goodbye"

 

[Victory Unlimited]

When A Girl Says Your Not Her Type

Here's my take on what it could mean:

...She's spared you weeks and months, and maybe even YEARS of pain that would come from you CHASING her and trying to "convince" her otherwise.

But...that's only "if" your ego will allow you to simply BELIEVE her when she says it.