"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When A Girl Says She's Tired Of Games

Young Stallion

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Ive noticed most women in general and especially women on sites like POF say they dont like games or they are tired of games or some variation of that.

Do they mean the game that we use to facilitate attraction?

Someone please define what games are, that would be great.

My theory would be that this means that a women has been with a guy or two who has known how to act in an attractive manner by being a challenge, being a mystery, being ****y and everything else that we KNOW keeps women interested.

The fact that they dont want games anymore means they are saying that they want a nice guy who expresses there feelings....which of course we know is NOT true and you cant trust a damn thing a woman says about what she wants.

I would also like you to list some of the things us guys can do to play games to raise attraction.

Thanks.

-YS
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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betheman

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It means they have had a fair share of Alpha D!ck and now wants to settle for an easy, 'nice' man...she realises the time for having babies is running out and needs a security blanket
 

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betheman said:
It means they have had a fair share of Alpha D!ck and now wants to settle for an easy, 'nice' man...she realises the time for having babies is running out and needs a security blanket
Basically, yeah.

The girl saying this has been used up by guys who pump & dump her, don't answer her texts, and only call her up for booty calls.

But despite the fact that she's saying this, she'll still bang this type of guy. They can't help themselves.
 

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Awesome answer!
Hey youngstallion....remember one thing. If you don't show some alpha signs. i am sure she will play you!
 

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It means that she easily falls for a player's tricks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SharinganUser

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betheman said:
It means they have had a fair share of Alpha D!ck and now wants to settle for an easy, 'nice' man...she realises the time for having babies is running out and needs a security blanket
And the irony of it all is that she won't be happy in a drama free relationship. :crackup:

These women are to be avoided at all costs. It's like a woman saying I am tired of all these drugs, I just want to drink water. Yeah right. These women are drama junkies, and they'll make your life a nightmare.

I'd much rather date a girl who openly admits to liking badboys, players, playboys, ect... At least she knows what she wants, and isn't in self-denial.
 

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It means she's the type of woman that falls for players and a very poor chooser of men in general. These are the types who say they want a quality man, but will ignore your messages and flake on you all while spreading their legs to a player on the first date. Anytime you see this on a woman's profile it means she's been pump and dumped by multiple men.
 

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She wants a beta niceguy she can string along and play games with, yet when an alpha male comes along, she's gonna take his dik! So become the alpha male, and don't tolerate her bullsh*t! Judge nismo's orders.

Case closed.
 

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Tired of games = she wants total control of everything and she wants to be pursued to NO END (that is why she is online after all).

It is a war-cry for all manginas and white knights in shining armor alike to pursue her from ALL ends of the earth! Even middle earth!

Don't get fooled by this "damsel in distress". Stop being a mangina. Stop being a white knight. Stop playing into her trap.

AVOID THESE GIRLS LIKE THE BUBONIC PLAGUE!!!!! :down: They will eat your soul.

Keep sarging....
 
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