"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When a girl says "nothings going to happen"...Escalation...

Crissco

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Why the fu*k do girls say ill let you know?

I called to say whats up, and to tell her I was going to be somewhere at 8 then be back around 9 30 and ill call her. She said its really bad out, and ill let u know.

I told her we never got to finish the movie and she should come over. and that I would call her on my way home.

Seems like she all of a sudden lost interest?

Any ideas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why the **** do girls say ill let u know.

Now she said shes not sure if shes going to come over bc of the weather. Funny part was it was the same way as last night.

Did I do anything wrong? Like, wtf?

I told her im heading out around 8 and ill call her when I get back, gotta see where it leads.
 

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It means she doesn't trust herself with you and she will very likely put out if you play your cards right.
 

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ill let you know = ill call you if no one else has plans and i find myself bored to death.
 

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Tiguere said:
ill let you know = ill call you if no one else has plans and i find myself bored to death.
Thats what I thought.

I texted her to come over, and no apparently shes sick.

Im gonna keep her as an option.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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