"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When a girl says no to a date request this worked for me several times!!

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My ex is a hb9, a model. She was the reason that I found out about So Suave and everything in it.

I remember that I texted her the first time ever after getting her number at school. Something like: whats up tonight?

she replied: not much.. and you?

me: in the gym working out, im up for something cool, lets go have a drink and go clubbing.

she: no can't sory my friends asked me too go to some stupid party but i dont feel like going out

you guys would say: say ok no prob and try again second time shes out!

what I did that evening:

Me: why not? its gonna be fun, sitting home is boring!

her: noooo i don't feel like it sory, my friends asked me all night too.

me: you afraid? ill be sweet

her: haha! no, it's getting late already

me: ye your def scared to go haha....

her: what time you wanna go?

me: uhmm what about 12 at loc

her: where are we going?

me: that loc (cafe) fo a drink then a club

her: hmmm okk see you there !

and we went on our first date....

Be4 this she never showed interest, just some LIGHT touching when I first talked to her.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheGambino said:
My ex is a hb9, a model. I had oneitis for her, I got in doing more afc kind of stuff so she lost interest but that isnt the case here ..
any pics of your ex, since she is a model?
 

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that's not a good idea, shes just a skinny model type, black hair, big boobs, small ass, skinny legs high heels, pretty eyes. you would say shes turkish but shes 100% dutch
 
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