"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When a girl plays the delayed text game with you

usernamedox11

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You should eject. It's the tip of the iceberg for games to come. It's an indication of her character at large. And even if she's not playing a game, it's an indication she's forgetful, unorganized, or generally uncourteous and not very thoughtful.

Just my experience. When girls do that, the girl has been around the block and is a game player in an immature state...you don't need it. Don't attempt to play it back with them.

Deal with mature women that are courteous and know how to treat you respectfully and well :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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applegoo said:
You should eject. It's the tip of the iceberg for games to come. It's an indication of her character at large.

Just my experience. When girls do that, the girl has been around the block and is a game player in an immature state...you don't need it. Don't attempt to play it back with them.

Deal with mature women that are courteous and know how to treat you respectfully and well :up:
Thing about it is many on here WILL juggle "hot babes", who do these games. So it's part of the package. If you juggle a plate like the h0e she is it all balances out anyway, you won't be worried about her games.
 

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DaddyLongShanks said:
Thing about it is many on here WILL juggle "hot babes", who do these games. So it's part of the package. If you juggle a plate like the h0e she is it all balances out anyway, you won't be worried about her games.
It might be true for guys juggling plates and they don't care, but a lot of guys here seem to want relationships...in that case, ignore these girls.

Even if you are juggling plates, don't put up with girls that aren't courteous and play games is what I think. Eventually the games will grow and it's not worth the stress.
 

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Agree on that, just downgrade them to potential fvck buddies, dont invest anything in them and dont invite them to places you're not going already by yourself.

Those are the kind of girls that you should text when you are already in a place for other reason and you ask them if they wanna join, whoever tries to set a date in advance is looking for a headache.
 

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Simple... Don't text. Talk to women and ask them out if they won;t go out with you they are not interested and you move onto the next one... I've been told to get with the program... texting is what people do now... I've heard it all. But if you don't want to text you don't have too. She texts you, you CALL her... if she likes you she gets the message and stops texting.

Works every time. Do this and guess what... you stand out, you're different because all the guys throwing their d!cks at her texts except you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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