When a girl plays hard to get between dates

[Fumbduck]

For example, you have good chemistry, good communication, then all of a sudden she starts "testing" you by playing harder to get.

Once this happens I usually say fvck it. Some girls come back around and their attraction spikes and they begin to pursue me, and others just fizzle out when I don't play their games. Problem is, the ones I WANT are the ones that fizzle out.

How do you handle this?

 

[Aaron B]

She runs game, she loses me.

Period.

I'm the prize to be won. She's one of many fish in the sea.

Even if I end up agreeing to be in a relationship with her, that's her reward for meeting my standards and "jumping through my hoops."

Me agreeing to restrict myself to just her vagina is a big damn deal, and its something she can only earn through her actions.

I have a high value because I'm rare and hard to obtain. I can replace her easily. At the same time, she probably can't find another one of me. And if she does, he'll probably be a "fvck and chucker" who won't agree to an LTR with her.

If she doesn't have the good sense to realize that I'm a badazz mofo that she's lucky to have the chance to be with, that's her issue not mine.

Those are the reasons that I get to have my relationship on my terms, instead of having to settle for whatever she's willing to let me have.

It all comes down to your thought process and how you feel about yourself.

 

[gaspipe]

She runs game, she loses me.

Period.

I'm the prize to be won. She's one of many fish in the sea.

Even if I end up agreeing to be in a relationship with her, that's her reward for meeting my standards and "jumping through my hoops."

Me agreeing to restrict myself to just her vagina is a big damn deal, and its something she can only earn through her actions.

I have a high value because I'm rare and hard to obtain. I can replace her easily. At the same time, she probably can't find another one of me. And if she does, he'll probably be a "fvck and chucker" who won't agree to an LTR with her.

If she doesn't have the good sense to realize that I'm a badazz mofo that she's lucky to have the chance to be with, that's her issue not mine.

Those are the reasons that I get to have my relationship on my terms, instead of having to settle for whatever she's willing to let me have.

It all comes down to your thought process and how you feel about yourself.

Exactly. Couldn't have said it better.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

She runs game, she loses me.

Period.

I'm the prize to be won. She's one of many fish in the sea.

Even if I end up agreeing to be in a relationship with her, that's her reward for meeting my standards and "jumping through my hoops."

Me agreeing to restrict myself to just her vagina is a big damn deal, and its something she can only earn through her actions.

I have a high value because I'm rare and hard to obtain. I can replace her easily. At the same time, she probably can't find another one of me. And if she does, he'll probably be a "fvck and chucker" who won't agree to an LTR with her.

If she doesn't have the good sense to realize that I'm a badazz mofo that she's lucky to have the chance to be with, that's her issue not mine.

Those are the reasons that I get to have my relationship on my terms, instead of having to settle for whatever she's willing to let me have.

It all comes down to your thought process and how you feel about yourself.

Right on bro! Couldn't have said it better myself.

 

[TheTraveller]

She runs game, she loses me.

Period.

I'm the prize to be won. She's one of many fish in the sea.

Even if I end up agreeing to be in a relationship with her, that's her reward for meeting my standards and "jumping through my hoops."

Me agreeing to restrict myself to just her vagina is a big damn deal, and its something she can only earn through her actions.

I have a high value because I'm rare and hard to obtain. I can replace her easily. At the same time, she probably can't find another one of me. And if she does, he'll probably be a "fvck and chucker" who won't agree to an LTR with her.

If she doesn't have the good sense to realize that I'm a badazz mofo that she's lucky to have the chance to be with, that's her issue not mine.

Those are the reasons that I get to have my relationship on my terms, instead of having to settle for whatever she's willing to let me have.

It all comes down to your thought process and how you feel about yourself.

Again, excellent post. To take that a step further, once you know how you feel about yourself you'll know what you want out of a girl. Honestly, truly want. If a game-player is not what you want, you'll next her. But if you don't know how you feel about yourself or have your own sense of self, you could keep her all for the wrong reasons.

Go for what you want in a relationship. It's about you, my friend.