"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When a girl plays games.

babemaster2000

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So here's the story. Last friday I went to prom with this girl (underclassmen), who was all over me. At school today, she wouldn't give me any eye contact, even when I returned her camera case! WTF?!?

I figured there were a couple reasons for this. 1. she is not interested anymore (highly unlikely) or 2. she is playing "uninterested" (this girl doesn't have too much exp. w/ guys)

What should I do? I've thought of making her jealous by flirting w/ other chicks when she's around (but I'm afraid tooverdo it b/c she's new to this) or just by playing it cool and hoping for her to approach me.

What do you guys think? Try to grab up as much info, just play it cool, or find another girl?

THANKS GUYS
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SemperFi719

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You should try and not let it phase you. When a girl does things such as ths in my eyes its a sign of her wanting to push back... and what do you do when a girl wants to push you back? You pull back even farther! Give it a day or two, she probably was in a pissed of mood or something. Was it just you or was she responding in general like this? Either way I would give her space for a day or two to see if she comes to you. If not then you could try and talk to her and see whats up. But when you do so don't make it obvious that it irked you when she did that. Could just be a test. Some would argue that you should next her or something but personally I think that you should wait out a little and see if this is just a **** test. Best of luck my friend.
 

Luscious

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Personally, I've never taken the time to actually do anything with a games girl.

You've gotta understand - I'm a very impatient guy. I just don't bother with wasting all the time on a girl that probably isn't interested enough anyhow.

I once had a case like what happened to you. Talked to a girl for a bit, got all the buying signs, we're talking "green light, gentlemen start your engines" here.;)
What happened?
I took her out one night when I finally got time, and it went great, but the next day she avoids me and so I tell her LJBF, and she says "Great, I was just about to tell you the same thing tonight".

This might be entirely different from what you've got here, just providing a little reference. You need to talk to her ASAP, don't let things just sit around - unfinished business is the pits, man. It could be just a matter of her being very shy, or she may have realized she's got absolutely no interest ;). You've got to find out.
 

Evil-Rom

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With a name like babemaster2000, how could they NOT be interested? :p
 

JSH

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3) or shes shy or something that happened. Something she did, soemthing you did, something that got back to her friends, something she did not want to do. She could be embaressed and trying to avoid you like hte palgue.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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