When a girl "loves" a guy??? (talk some sense into me lol)

[Soprano]

ive been into this 'game' for so long that i dont know if its starting to mess with my head or not.....when a girl says she loves a guy (other than me), i start thinking about his game, if i was out-gamed etc....does love between two people have more to it than someone's game???


and im just using the term 'game' here as a general way to describe it, i know theres more to it than just pickup tactics and there is inner-game etc...

 

[moneyisking]

well, simply put, if a girl loves the guy, then the guy DEFINITELY has some game, unless of course she loves him as a friend (friend zone=dip sh1t). now days in american society, women are damn hard to please, so if a woman loves a man, he has decent game. btw sir, such thing as love does not exist. it's all play of hormone. rather than looking for a girl who can love you, find a girl who can be LOYAL to you. love is bs and we all know it. so many fvcking wives and girl friends who will cheat if the man is little unsatisfying...

 

[WhitePimp]

As I've matured a bit I've learned to read into what girls say with DJ filtered lenses, and from my experience, the guy she says she dislikes or hates or treats her like crap or is a d!ck, etc, she usually has a crush on and the one she "loves" is her gay puppy dog

Unless she really means she loves his penis, in which case you're SOL, but you should be able to tell the difference

 

[Desdinova]

I don't even think about the other guy's game. My experience is he's got nothing on me

 

[Soprano]

from the best i can tell im better than this dude in many different ways....and my game's been tight for the most part.....he does sound afc as hell from what she's said, like the gay puppy dog thing...he like gave her flowers and kept trying to kiss her and telling her how he was worried about her getting with me when they were 'just friends'...... but he's the one hittin it and who went from being in the friend zone to ****in lol so i dunno.....i might be able to steal her but i dunno

 

[Desdinova]

You'll know your 'game' is better than the other dude's when she starts putting out "what if" scenarios about you and her being together. If you keep encouraging her to fantasize about what it would be like to be with you, she will arrange a real-life scenario where the two of you will be alone together.

I swear that women must have a textbook on how to cheat on their man. It happens the same way everytime.

 

[DJ Miquelo]

My opinion on this 'love' thing is that the word is heavily overused by females, especially the younger ones. Often what is the case is that the guy she says she 'loves' is just a guy who she feels she is secure with (perhaps because he acts like a faggy AFC who wont ever walk away from her).

This doesnt necessarily mean this guy has game, infact most of the ones ive come across infact do NOT have game at all and are uber AFC.

Your example may be different since im sure females actually do 'love' certain guys they are with and will say it cos they mean it. but! as i said, ive seen girls just saying it to:
1) fit into what society says they should be doing (ie being in LOVEEE with a guy)<<<< main one!!
2) try to convince herself that this is the guy for her and he is really what she wants (but in reality that is often BS)

So my point is, the love infection that is all over the media and through society thesedays clearly influences these females to blurt out that they 'love' a guy when in reality they really dont have a clue what 'love' is. Not surprising really since females are heavily influenced by their environment!!

All that said, thats not to say that all guys that females declare they 'love' dont have game. It obviously depends on the individual guy and such.

So Soprano, in answer to your question, just cos a girl says she loves a guy doesnt necessarily mean he has better game than you or anything ridiculous like that. He MIGHT! but her saying she loves him arguably doesnt really tell u much!

 

[trent81]

Let me tell you something really important you fat fuvk.

First, if a girl is in love with a man, another man, she will never be yours.
You can tell by her actions, does she talk about him alot, does she cry about him, call him, compare him to you?
YOU WILL NEVER GET ONE HUNDRED PERCENT FROM A WOMAN WHO LOVES ANOTHER MAN.
So you can do two things;

You can keep pursuing her, you WILL get laid
You can stop, YOU WON'T get laid
but, you can go get a girl who will be into you, you only, and you will never worry about another man. Try to find a girl who is truly single. None are really single, but try to find one not on the rebound.

 

[zekko]

A girl can love a guy for any number of reasons, it isn't necessarily about game.